I feel like not disclosing you are trans is akin to rape. I don't advocate for the killing or harassment of trans people. It doesn't matter if I agree or don't because it's their lives and bodies I have no say over that bottom line they are human beings. However, once you engage others it's not just about you and I don't get what is so hard about that to understand.
If women get mad about men lying about everything before sex, how can this be ok? Sex is major.There needs to be a line. True their are men who know and murder trans and they deserve all the punishment, they need to be under the jail or worse. But I still can't excuse lying about what you are.
A man lying about:
intentions
Being married
Having kids
Having an std
Living with parents
Having a job
Etc... is wrong but someone not disclosing something so major is ok? Once you venture into sexual activity it's your partners business.
I will say I believe not being up front from jump is wrong, wasting people time, playing with their emotions psyche etc...but it's a dangerous slope. People really are killing and beating trans people off top.
If women get mad about men lying about everything before sex, how can this be ok? Sex is major.There needs to be a line. True their are men who know and murder trans and they deserve all the punishment, they need to be under the jail or worse. But I still can't excuse lying about what you are.
A man lying about:
intentions
Being married
Having kids
Having an std
Living with parents
Having a job
Etc... is wrong but someone not disclosing something so major is ok? Once you venture into sexual activity it's your partners business.
I will say I believe not being up front from jump is wrong, wasting people time, playing with their emotions psyche etc...but it's a dangerous slope. People really are killing and beating trans people off top.
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