I agree with you on yo 1st statement. But disagree with you on the rest. There’s plenty of average, regular, and square brehs. Matched up with their equal.It's worse in our community let's be honest.
A square white dude that's average looking and isn't fat can get his white girl equivalent with relative ease while making an average or even below average salary. See this shyt all the time.
An average looking square black man? He either has to a.) make a shytton of money to attract his equivalent b.) date ugly/obese women or c.) get a passport. Sometimes the avg looking black square can get his equal without but that's the exception. The high obesity rate among our women doesn't help either so damn near all the girls in decent shape are going for pretty boys or thugs. Even the thick girls that are fat but in the right places.
Legit stone cold black nerds who have it especially bad since there are 10 BM nerds to every BW nerd.