I always try to temper it because when I was younger I took stuff too far and it's hard for me to let go off a grudge. But nonetheless I feel like I have seen both sides of the extreme and I'm ready to acknowledge that middle line has some major value.When you address it aggressively the first time, it stops immediately.
Even if it ends up in a scrap, and even if you get your ass whooped, if you are around that person again, they will definitely think that a slight level of disrespect towards you will fukk their day up. Even if they have a clear physical advantage, nobody is trying to fight every time they see a mfer lol.
I think there is major value in doing inner work. Most people are trained into believing you have to physically pursue things and that's the only way to get what you want but that doesn't account for our mental(and it's many faculties) or spiritual(and its many facilities) reality. Emotions are useful tools to help you navigate as well.
Then there are people who go in the other extreme with those mental magnetism and spiritual bypassing books..its all about finding balance and figuring out which field you need to play on to release blocks, find a way through to your goal, get clarity on what your purpose is, how to better manage your energy etc