Let's Raise Coli Consciousness in 2025: Share meaningful lessons with the community

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First lesson: what you do in private has an effect on your public aura (influencing the way others treat you)



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This sounds good but I call bullshyt. If someone is doing something in private that means you don't know what they are doing. Not every person judges 1 person the same Therefore, the positive or negative responses to them someone is contradicting what they did in private.

Someone is negative in private some people will respond negatively to them some positively some not at all. Only 1 group is correct?
 

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What she said sounds good and I don’t disagree but how does that explain different people treating you different ways? :jbhmm:
 

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Here's my contribution to raising the consciousness of coli brehs. Some basic music theory for piano. New Year perfect time to learn to play.

Proper Fingering for C major Scale (All the white Keys starting from the first white Key furtherest to the left on your piano/keyboard)


C Blues Scale (learn to play the blues in 30 seconds)
 

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This sounds good but I call bullshyt. If someone is doing something in private that means you don't know what they are doing. Not every person judges 1 person the same Therefore, the positive or negative responses to them someone is contradicting what they did in private.

Someone is negative in private some people will respond negatively to them some positively some not at all. Only 1 group is correct?


Think it may be that what is negative is often based on the eye of the beholder but if you feel negatively about what you're doing than

For example let's say one of these JBO fellas on here feels terrible about what they're doing, they will carry that shame with him and it will detract from their aura

but if a JBO breh feels accomplished like they have achieved some monumental feat (not monumental feet JBO breh, stay with me) after their marathon session they may walk out the house like they just won a gold medal

If you meet a woman and you cheated on your wife with her than you may feel terrible about it

But if you're single meet a woman who is on the same wavelength as you and you do your thing, put it down and make the Earth shake you're gonna feel good about it

So the same act can make us feel different ways based on how we feel about it
 

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Think it may be that what is negative is often based on the eye of the beholder but if you feel negatively about what you're doing than

For example let's say one of these JBO fellas on here feels terrible about what they're doing, they will carry that shame with him and it will detract from their aura

but if a JBO breh feels accomplished like they have achieved some monumental feat (not monumental feet JBO breh, stay with me) after their marathon session they may walk out the house like they just won a gold medal

If you meet a woman and you cheated on your wife with her than you may feel terrible about it

But if you're single meet a woman who is on the same wavelength as you and you do your thing, put it down and make the Earth shake you're gonna feel good about it

So the same act can make us feel different ways based on how we feel about it
OK, if you did something negative in private and feel negative about it no one will respond to you positively? I don't think that's true, plus it's impossible to prove because no one knows what people do in private. If they do it's no longer private.
 

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What she said sounds good and I don’t disagree but how does that explain different people treating you different ways? :jbhmm:



Biases should answer that. Humans are biased so everybody isn't going to hate you, love you, like you, or dislike you.
 

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Never let a person disrespect you without addressing it on the spot.
I'm going to be honest. This is something I refused to pay attention to all my life. I always stood on my own feet and let it roll over me because I genuinely don't care what most people think and if they aren't going to take it to the physical I'm not trying to go back and forth in some shouting match.....BUT I noticed it can just cut the bullshyt. Most people that are like that end up being habitual line steppers and you end up having to check them in some way or form anyway
 

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I'm going to be honest. This is something I refused to pay attention to all my life. I always stood on my own feet and let it roll over me because I genuinely don't care what most people think and if they aren't going to take it to the physical I'm not trying to go back and forth in some shouting match.....BUT I noticed it can just cut the bullshyt. Most people that are like that end up being habitual line steppers and you end up having to check them in some way or form anyway
When you address it aggressively the first time, it stops immediately.

Even if it ends up in a scrap, and even if you get your ass whooped, if you are around that person again, they will definitely think that a slight level of disrespect towards you will fukk their day up. Even if they have a clear physical advantage, nobody is trying to fight every time they see a mfer lol.
 
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