(Disclaimer: I have no horse in the Tory - Megan race. IDGAF about these celebrities, this message is only for Black men’s benefit)
So here’s the deal:
When that attention hungry pass around of the moment is available, pass on it - say no.
Don’t smash her. Don’t go to the party with her. Not a single good thing can come from smashing women like that.
Make better choices. Pay attention to how a woman behaves before dedicating time to her.
How many social media videos of her acting reckless and like an idiot do you need to see of a woman to say “ok no, I’m good”?
Especially with the 6-7/10 girls (like this Megan) who get overhyped by people and you think they are a 10/10. Now you look like a real dummy when the IG angles and filters aren’t there in real life.
Who you hang with rubs off on you. Hang with an over the top attention hungry woman who is average but gets hyped up by everyone (including dudes)…? You’ll be seen as a clown too.
“But it’s just p****”
Ask Tory Lanez that.
In this new era when a woman claims something - anything - she’ll get the benefit of the doubt.
This is good: many women get abused. Unfortunately there are women who knowingly do this even when a man did nothing.
There are 100s of reasons to be selective with the women or woman you spend time with. Start being an adult and think before you do.
This goes for Tory Lanez (a famous, rich Black man has little to no chance in this justice system) but also for you reading this.
As far as how Black women are responding to allegations against Black men: Twitter is literally used by a small % of Black women, and the loud, angry minority is not a reflection of how ALL Black women see Black men. Stop listening to birds and especially stop wasting time on interacting with them.