I respect that but same way fathers don't get a pass for sucking at their jobs neither should moms . Your relationship with your mom is clearly good but if say your mom was an abusive drug addict who tried to sell you for crack how would you feelI would buy my mom a house, car etc.. I would never allow her house to be foreclosed on it would be paid off. Once she has a place to live nice vehicle, everything else is gravy for me. THE FACT that he allowed it go get to that point is deplorable to me IMO