Ladies what water based lube do you use?

[Maxine Shaw]

Shibari for me, but that's for fukking purposes.

I'm wondering if maybe your silicon is a little too new or too hard? Try softening it up some with some warm water, or maybe fold it a few times over and over. I admit that those things just aren't comfortable the first few times (ESPECIALLY if the stem is too long), but now I can pop mine in and out in dark at 3 a.m. if I need to. Which I rarely ever do. I always say fold it in half (like a taco), THEN insert it and just let it open itself up (like a bell).

 

[OsO]

Just an FYI you shouldn't put anything in your vagina or on your skin that you wouldn't put in your mouth. Meaning, if it's not safe enough to consume orally it's certainly not safe enough to put on your skin or in the holiest of holies

For best results use organic castor oil, grapeseed oil, almond oil, sunflower oil, hempseed oil or even coconut oil.