Ladies: What was your worst heartbreak, and how did you get over it?

[Seea]

The mess that was my last relationship.

One day after all the crying and yelling and drinking and feeling my blood pressure go up and stay up I told myself no more, I can choose to deal with this more effectively than I have been. Started reading more, working on self-improvement, cutting down on alcohol, avoiding emotional triggers, etc. Worked well enough to the point that I'm still doing all of those things over a year later. I find that if I start slacking I feel it all over (physically, mentally, etc.) too.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Fortunately I've never had my heartbroken but I feel like since I've made it this long without that experience that when it finally does happen it's going to be crushing . Maybe that's why I'm reluctant to get back out there. I'm not looking forward to something that feels inevitable.

you and me both
they say for you to know true love, you must know heartbreak. Dear God