I just see a lot of wounded brothers posting, with poor coping mechanisms, so they can't and won't take responsiblity for their actions. A lot of over compensating. It's so obvious.
Alot of fronting.
Attention. People do want attention, to think you're entitled to attention from another person, regardless of their feelings is messed up. Someone may want attention, but not want it from you. And just maybe there's someone else in the wings who wants attention from you but they're not getting it. That's the way it is , you gotta move on and wisen up.