It breaks my heart when I see a woman seek validation from strange men, or society in general, and so forth. Remember you don't need a man to tell you, you're beautiful. Like my girl India says: "Every freckle on my face is where it's supposed to be and I know my creator didn't make no mistakes on me."
Men out there, please tell your daughters they're beautiful. Teach them to respect themselves. The society we live in today teaches our girls the opposite. They are taught that attention can be equated to beauty, and that the higher the level of attention they receive, the more beautiful they are, which of course is entirely inaccurate. I'm not American, but I managed to watch a clip of Beyonce's performance because everybody was going on about it. Do you know what I saw? A grown woman (who just had a baby) thrusting her hips violently and gyrating shamelessly on the dance floor. THIS is what half the world looks up to. As men, you cannot put these type of females on a pedestal, and then get upset when half the female population try to emulate them.
Fake weave, fake nails, fake eyelashes is all that is promoted. Women fall for that crap. Why? Because men are allured by it. The problem we have in the 21st Century: Men lust after promiscuous females, but want to settle with a good female? But what happens to that quiet, shy, but impressionable girl? Unless she comes from a good family who uphold strong religious/moral values she'll fall prey to men, because she's too busy trying to fit society's mould. Thankfully, I received wise words at a young age: "Would you buy an apple that was already bitten?" My mother asked. I replied "no mother, why?" To which she responded: "Then don't let anyone ever bite you unlawfully. Stay pure." It's so important to teach our children self-respect from a young age! Control what they watch & who they look up to.
Ladies know your worth please! Your worth is PRICELESS! so please stop selling it for insincere compliments, takeaway, drugs, coli-daps, or anything else!