Ladies Of TheColi...

[SheWantTheD]

I can see why women make men wait. Hell, I was doing that even if I like someone a lot. The thing is, men is all about conquest. When you make them wait, you're actually making acheiving the box now their focus on conquering. With that comes anticipation, the usual feeling of the cat & mouse game. The waiting game can be both good and bad.

When I met my husband, I gave it up the first night after our date. Feelings were already developed and we clicked almost instantly. Giving it to him didn't deter him for asking for my hand 10 months later.

who kids you be beating tho?

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

who kids you be beating tho?

Why you so random tho?

 

[SheWantTheD]

I definitely understand your rationale but I disagree.

I know plenty of women who have had their guys wait weeks or months without sex and still ended up being dogged out.

For the most part a man is going to follow through with his intentions whether you give it up or not.

He may be smiling in your face and saying he is fine with waiting and then going to the next girl's house to fukk her instead.

It just depends on the man.....

Yeah I was gonna say dude could be messing with other women the whole time though. Thing is are y'all in a committed relationship, if not did y'all have the conversation of whether or not you are messing with other people. If not then if he is messing with other women he didn't really lie or do anything wrong. In today's world, you gotta be clear about your intentions and what's going on, if not it opens up a road for heartbreak, getting played, used etc.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Why you so random tho?

couldn't help myself

 

[Regine Hunter]

Not applicable

 

[SheWantTheD]

I think it does matter.

Most of the women who had lasting relationships and fcked on the first date already knew the guy way before the first date. Just like you and your husband weren't strangers.

Most guys don't stick around if you fck them when you first meet and are strangers.

It's a double edged sword though. A lot of dudes that waited ended up getting played and never got to smash while some other dude that ain't put in half the work he did, known the chick for a couple days smashed with no effor. So a lot of dudes gon disappear if they don't end up smashing quickly (not on the first date but about 2-3 weeks then they gone).

 

[SheWantTheD]

Not applicable

Unless your a virgin you's a lie! And even if you were one, you could still have an opinion of when you gon give it up like another poster did.

 

[Orange cream shake]

So you ended up marrying dude? Oh wow, that's cool. Damn, y'all were young too.

Yup. We now.

 

[Regine Hunter]

Unless your a virgin you's a lie! And even if you were one, you could still have an opinion of when you gon give it up like another poster did.

Not applicable.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Not applicable.

Of course

 

[Regine Hunter]

Of course

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Shyt if we feeling each other n the mood is right hell yes......but there was this fella I went on a late date with we hadn't seen each other in like 15 years. I picked him up we went to cheddars mostly just to drink at the bar he ordered me the honey butter croissants n kept buying me drinks I ordered a maple bacon club sandwich to take for lunch the next day cuz the idea was I was gone spend the night at his house so it could go down n I go str8 to work the next morning butttttttttttt he kept putting the bill where I could see how much he spent $67 then we went to the gas station he filled up my car n bought me more beer ...he kept making sure I knew what he spent....he fucced his self out sum ez pusc that I slept next to him n didn't give him none. Then he rubbed his morning wood against what used to be my booty....but I brushed him off n told him I had to get to work. He would have got some that night if he wasn't trynna make it known what he spent at cheddars.