Not a coli lady, but out of the ones listed, I'm feeling the Michelle Obama one. Kind of reminds me of
But after some googling, I would like to see this one incorporated, including the hands too. The message is pretty gender-neutral, and I don't think we have a smiley like this yet
:thisargumentswaytoofukkingdumbtotouch: or :yourightmybad:
Bonus