Ladies of Coli would you feel offended if...

[Boutdatlife]

I find it hilarious how the men are rushing into this thread with their tampon string hanging out, answering for the women.

Let's be reality, what man in his right mind let's a female know where he rests his head ESPECIALLY on the 1st date?

Most of you are probably young, barely have sex, or yet to meet a crazy/stalker bust the windows out your car type of female. Whether you realize it or not you're giving said female the green light to pop up at your place whenever she feels like it; willingly violating your privacy/personal space.

It should be a privilege for a woman to know where you live (an individual in which you take seriously).


Smarten up....

Or dont date hood rats who never had shyt

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Or dont date hood rats who never had shyt

It surpasses an individual with hood rat tendencies/behavior. It all boils down to having respect for yourself and who you subject to your space.

Once you move out of your parents home, where you reside is a place that should be held sacred. If you're still living at home or have roommates only then can I slightly fathom inviting just anyone into your dwelling.

 

[Boutdatlife]

It surpasses an individual with hood rat tendencies/behavior. It all boils down to having respect for yourself and who you subject to your space.

Once you move out of your parents home, where you reside is a place that should be held sacred. If you're still living at home or have roommates only then can I slightly fathom inviting just anyone into your dwelling.

LOL this is pure comedy .

So your saying because i rather have females come and chill in my comfortable home i dont have respect for myself

If you saw how i lived you wouldnt say such fukkary

When hoes enter my crib


Unlike most nikkas on this board i dont just date anyone. I understand any woman can be crazy but like i said im not just inviting just any old hood rat.

Im one of those negros that live nice ,drive a modest car and buy expensive ass clothes/shoes. I live by a lake and a golf course hoes gotta think twice before thinking they bout to act out in my neighborhood .

 

[Token]

Its not even about trying to uphold an "image" its about protecting yourself. I know I'm not stronger than a grown man. He could do whatever he wanted to me

This. Going to a strange guys house would put me in a vulnerable position.



I'm not trynna be a victim .

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Like some of the brehs said, if you got paper or they think your fine,all that I'm a lady shyt.goes right out the window.

Don't listen to these women brehs, they don't even know what the truth is

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

LOL this is pure comedy .

So your saying because i rather have females come and chill in my comfortable home i dont have respect for myself

If you saw how i lived you wouldnt say such fukkary

When hoes enter my crib


Unlike most nikkas on this board i dont just date anyone. I understand any woman can be crazy but like i said im not just inviting just any old hood rat.

Im one of those negros that live nice ,drive a modest car and buy expensive ass clothes/shoes. I live by a lake and a golf course hoes gotta think twice before thinking they bout to act out in my neighborhood .

Is that right?

Ironically, the tendencies of a hood rat is trying to impress others by their possessions (let it marinate). Due to the fact that you live 'lavish' you should exert caution. Believing you can tell if an individual is sane by looking at them or their mannerisms is a lesson you've yet to learn.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

real talk i think some of these girls are lying, they just dont wanna look bad.

teachers are out here fukking their students but none of these girls ever went home with a nikka on night one

These are the same creatures that if you ask em how many nikkas they fukked the number is always 4. I've smashed enough broads on the first night to not believe their bull shyt.

 

[Crakface]

a dude took you to his crib for the first date? No going out somewhere nice or somewhere at all, just straight to his crib for some chinese takeout, some drink, preferably hennessy, and a bootleg movie.

Only if she thinks you aint packin.

Or if by crib you mean a raggedy piece of shyt apartment/basement/mammas house

 

[zopaco317]

 

[Boutdatlife]

Is that right?

Ironically, the tendencies of a hood rat is trying to impress others by their possessions (let it marinate). Due to the fact that you live 'lavish' you should exert caution. Believing you can tell if an individual is sane by looking at them or their mannerisms is a lesson you've yet to learn.

So because i live nice and buy nice things im automatically trying to impress everyone i encounter ?

How about im a young professional who went to school and works hard.

I like the finer things in life!

I'm sorry i live in a neighborhood where i can leave my mail outside for 4 days and no one will touch it unless its raining and my neighbors will hold for me .

Clowns on this board i swear just cause yall living a certain way doesn't mean everyone else is as well.

You got a fitted on in your avi like a typical ny hood rat yet im the bad judge of character.

I try to surround myself with decent folks and so far the good Lord has Blessed me in that department.