LADIES: Is it cute or a turn off when a man gets jealous over you?

Zapp Brannigan

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You should be jealous enough to show she means enough to you to be competitive for her attention, but not so overly jealous that you make a total ass out of yourself in trying to control her actions. You have to be faithful in her trust but show that you still care. If you can't trust her, then she's not worth competing over.
 

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Remember jealousy breeds envy, envy breeds hate, hate breeds destruction. Let that girl choose and move on withe ya life.

Fukk out here with that platitude. A man can be emotional and yet aware and in control of how he reacts to it. What you describe is a fukking animal, we're conscious beings. If I'm jealous, it lets me know I'm alive and care about my girl yet I have morality so I'm not going to act out like a violent ape.

You are right about letting her choose, don't mean I can't feel some way about it.
 

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I never show another female anything resembling jealousy, which I don't really get anyways. If I see her eying up another dude or talking to another guy heavily, then I walk away and go find another broad to talk to. They usually come running after you jealous themselves.

I usually do this and usually let her know how shyt had me heated for a minute afterwards, but to be completely emotionless? nah
 

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jealousy only creeps up on me when i feel disrespected. my girl is a dancer and she looks very good so whenever i go to one of her performances she is getting pulled to dance all night long by male dancers. it never bothers me but if i see one trying to talk to her or grind his crotch on her ass then its a problem :ufdup:.

hasnt happened yet and im sure it wont since these happy feet borderline homo nikkas dont want my foot in they ass.:birdman:
 

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im talking about if you are in a relationship.....not random hoes

:comeon:
 

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1) If he sees others guys looking at you in public or trying to start up a conversation --> Other guys are going to look; that's just human nature. As long as they aren't disrespectful, he's fine... besides, they're looking, but he's the one that gets to smack it up, flip it, and rub it down. As for the 2nd part, I don't really start conversations with random individuals, so that's not a concern.
2) If an ex texts you or he sees them on social media or any reminder --> I don't associate with any exes, nor do they have my contact information; they're an ex for a reason.
3) If he just gets mad at the thought of someone approaching you or even have been with you --> That's just silly.
 

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Fukk out here with that platitude. A man can be emotional and yet aware and in control of how he reacts to it. What you describe is a fukking animal, we're conscious beings. If I'm jealous, it lets me know I'm alive and care about my girl yet I have morality so I'm not going to act out like a violent ape.

You are right about letting her choose, don't mean I can't feel some way about it.
I was talking about letting your emotions get control over you and how it can lead to a terrible life decisions.
 

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It depends don't be that crazy jealous but if he sees somebody looking or saying something I feel he should get a little territorial
 
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