thirst is when you seek and need from others. Wanting something and going after what you want is not necessarily thirst.
i read a comparison somewhere that made sense to me so i'll share. Say one day you want to eat ice cream. You go to the super market to get some. That's cool. but if they have none, it's not the end of the world. you'll either try another store or simply go without ice scream and KIM. If they have it but charging 100$, you won't buy cause you're not a sucker, you won't steal it cause you're not a petty thief and you won't give them a counterfeit bill cause you're not a fraud. you'll simply say "you know what, i'll get ice scream somewhere else another day
Now you can't say you don't care at all, you would have
preferred to have ice scream. but your happiness is not dependent on getting ice scream. You should approach women with the same mindset. You can prefer a certain outcome. denying that would be like denying who you are. but you don't need that outcome to be happy. you have other sources of happiness.
If she feels like you seek more from her then she seeks from you then she is above you.