Message board romances were easy back in the day. Like 2001 to 07. Pre social media really blowing up. People were more willing to take risks in those days. Even though those relationships almost always ended in a public meltdown on the board people could never resist. I met a very important person there. Of course it blew up but that impact was profound. It wasnt just fukking and that's where things get messy. I don't regret it AT ALL though and if I had the chance to do it over I'd definitely make it work.