Give me some of your personal examples, rather older or younger. Do most of them remind you of these air head nikkas on here, or have you had much better experiences with brothas than you come across online?
Ladies, How Have Bros Approached You When They Were Trying To Date You?
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KinksandCoils
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Most guys try to have some sort of game or line and FOR ME that makes you look corny I rather you just be relaxed and speak to me like you would Speak to anyone else.
Most approach the same way, some variation of how are you, what's your name, youre very pretty, number/can i take you out request.
Its when you say no that the fun starts, repeated begging, why are you so stuck up, offers of tricking and where they can take you what they can buy for you. Or my fave line this summer "i guess you werent ready for the big one" in obvious refrence to his penis, ive been laughing about it for multiple weeks. They're really not rude persay, men just seem not to understand that i didn;t come out the house explicitly looking for dykk that day, im just trying to go to work or the store or whatever. There are venues for meeting people of the oppiste sex, the grocery aisle or parking lot is not a club or bar. But i would probably be depressed if i wasnt ever approached, so it's fine. And i have had a good experience in dating a guy who approached me out of the blue with the shoulder tap, but truthfully it's anoying when they are not attractive.
Its when you say no that the fun starts, repeated begging, why are you so stuck up, offers of tricking and where they can take you what they can buy for you. Or my fave line this summer "i guess you werent ready for the big one" in obvious refrence to his penis, ive been laughing about it for multiple weeks. They're really not rude persay, men just seem not to understand that i didn;t come out the house explicitly looking for dykk that day, im just trying to go to work or the store or whatever. There are venues for meeting people of the oppiste sex, the grocery aisle or parking lot is not a club or bar. But i would probably be depressed if i wasnt ever approached, so it's fine. And i have had a good experience in dating a guy who approached me out of the blue with the shoulder tap, but truthfully it's anoying when they are not attractive.
Whats the maturity level and how does it coincide with the dudes that come at you? I got my reasons for this type of thread. A lot of these clowns that are hollering about Black women don't give him the time of day, then rantin and ravin to other brothers to run to Brazil and outer space to get a woman, anything other than a sister.....just really aint shyt to begin with and I mean mentally........A lot of sisters see through it, then these same c00ns will get used by a cac or other non black bytch like a trophy.....and they don't even see it......they like the c00ns in my avi and tommy sotomayors who poisoning our communities guising as "concern" or "care" for black women and black men's relationships.
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I see.....aye see my question to the sister above and give me an answer when you can.....appreciate it sis....
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
most guys that approach act like they are 18-23.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
yupAnd they be older bros don't they? That's what I figured.....
VFib
All Star
The ones I actually gave a chance to all approached me and made it clear they wanted to get to know me. (Keep in mind, I have never dated anyone I just met on the street ). I love to laugh so if you start off with something funny, I'll respond well.
Pick up lines, thirst, "yo ma!", "Shorty", "Sweetheart" or any pet name is cause for automatic dismissal. IDGAF how fine you are.
Pick up lines, thirst, "yo ma!", "Shorty", "Sweetheart" or any pet name is cause for automatic dismissal. IDGAF how fine you are.
DarkHorse23
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live it to the limit
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The guys that have approached me that I actually went out on a date with didn't throw out some line or bs. It was a friendly exchange that made me comfortable.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
It's always a friendly greeting that leads to small talk and exchanging numbers. Last guy that approached me asked for my number after I explained to him how to wash his curly hair.
Lana del Rey
Only the ocean can separate us....
The guys that approached me always complimented me in some way. They then proceed to joke about themselves or their day (my ex did that and it was so cute lol). I don't really care for the aggressive guys though or the ones that make sexual remarks. Those type of guys are in the minority though lol