Ladies How Does The Relationship With Your Dad Affect How You View Men?

Raava

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if they had a father :jrdnsas2:

:comeon:


Anyway, greatly. I think who you had/ didn't have greatly affects you outlook and who you choose to date. Even if they were bad fathers and definitely if they were absent. Every serious relationship I have had, I see some of his attributes in him.
 

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My dad and I didn't have a close relationship, I mean he bought me what I wanted and paid for my private school tuition but we didn't hang out or anything. Didn't really impact my view on men but how I interact with them was greatly affected.
 

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nothing wrong with that, lotta male posters on thecoli with fathers have over 60,000 posts and gossip like bytches
having a father or lack of a father i wanna know their opinions

:russ:. Anyway I've seen my dad provide for me and my family, and my mother and father have a happy marriage. I hope for the same:lupe:.
 

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My father is one of the most optimistic dudes you'll ever meet but won't have a problem spotting and outting a bum azz nikka.

If you're lazy, no job, don't believe in God, just a user, get away from me. I watched my dad get up every day at 5 to go to work to provide for his family. He's the prototype for men I date.
He's also a geek and I look for that in men too.
 

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My dad was always there and always tender with me. He still is. He is my best friend. So, I expect a man who is going to be present, tender, kind, truthful, compassionate. My father loves me despite my faults and he lets it be okay that I do have faults. Plus he doesn't judge me when I fukk up. He loves me through the fukk up. Supports me. So, this is what I have been taught to respect. He is a long-haul type of brotha. So that is what I expect.
 
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