Ladies, how do you feel about dudes who don't ever want kids?

[GSR]

I'm wondering what the general consensus is....deal breaker? You feel the same? Or neutral?

 

[okra]

its ideal. children are horrible

 

[thirdeye]

I'm neutral. I'm on the fence about it too.

 

[Ashley Banks]

doesn't bother me.

 

[SelahNicole]

It's not a deal breaker at all. I'm fine with it.

 

[September]

IDEAL. Bring him to me!

 

[GSR]

its ideal. children are horrible

I wouldn't call them horrible, just unnecessary. But it sounds like you would never possibly change your mind so that's good.

 

[HONEYBLAY]

No prob w/ it....

 

[GSR]

Next question....

Why do y'all feel the way you do? Or is it just not that serious and you don't give it much thought?

 

[Giselle]

I want kids, so I wouldn't be with someone who doesn't.

 

[SouthernBelle]

deal breaker

 

[LadySimone]

I think my issue is meeting men who don't want anymore kids. I've met two already.

 

[Archimedes]

I'm a man and don't want kids. I've found out that most women who say they don't want kids change their minds after a while...

Only girl I ever been with who legit didn't want kids was 100% focused on her career trying to accomplish greatness in a field of natural science... Let's just say those women (and very ambitious women) are rare but do exist. Even then, I've seen articles on top CEO women who sleep 6 hours a day and shyt and work all the time, and most of them have kids.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Couldn't do it.

 

[Meadow]

Definitely a deal breaker, alongside a nikka that wants a woman to pop out 5+ kids and stay at home.

I will have no more than two children, for which my hubby will provide 1-year of personal training post-birth. Anything more than that will be thoroughly negotiated.

ps. Those things should be vaguely clarified on a first date (i.e. "Do you see yourself having kids/raising a family")