Ladies have you ever ghosted on anyone?

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I ghosted a dude once, met him on tinder went on two dates, the whole time I was there I was checking the time on his watch. I just wasn’t feeling him and he was super into me. Men don’t take rejection well so I took The cowards way out and dipped. He also wanted me to come to his house on date 2 so he could cook for me. No Bueno.

I wouldn't even call if coward shyt. I mean...you know the saying: men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them. Lot of men feel ownership and don't take rejection like normal people.

I think I've been ghosted before. Chick I was doing FWB shyt with just disappeared after I bought her a pizza one day lmao. She hit me up asking me to order her Dominos and I was like sure whatever. Texted her a week later, no response. Never heard back. We had been "seeing" each other for a couple months. Just sex.
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I wouldn't even call if coward shyt. I mean...you know the saying: men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them. Lot of men feel ownership and don't take rejection like normal people


I’ve never heard this saying but; us women are afraid that men will kill us. Surely that shouldn’t be the option if someone laughs at u.
 

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I’ve never heard this saying but; us women are afraid that men will kill us. Surely that shouldn’t be the option if someone laughs at u.

Not just laughing tho. The quote is about ego and how men view themselves. The insecurity that we have with respect to women embarrassing or rejecting us. Whereas women understand this and fear what the consequences can be (death). One is afraid of embarrassment, the other is afraid of murder.

When I listened to the Harvey Weinstein tapes the thing that struck me was how deathly afraid he was of the woman embarrassing him in public. He used it to try to guilt her into coming with him to the hotel room...and you could tell she was deathly afraid.
 

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I wouldn't even call if coward shyt. I mean...you know the saying: men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them. Lot of men feel ownership and don't take rejection like normal people.

I think I've been ghosted before. Chick I was doing FWB shyt with just disappeared after I bought her a pizza one day lmao. She hit me up asking me to order her Dominos and I was like sure whatever. Texted her a week later, no response. Never heard back. We had been "seeing" each other for a couple months. Just sex.
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That's thing with FWB it was about sex yet she wanted you to do relationship things "Order me a pizza".You. an always spot a talker or ghoster a mile away.
 

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I’ve never heard this saying but; us women are afraid that men will kill us. Surely that shouldn’t be the option if someone laughs at u.
Quote is true.Y'all have it worse when it comes to security.I know of women that will send a picture of a guy they date to their best friend and say "This is who I'm with in case something happens".It's always seem to be fear with some of y'all.
 

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Not just laughing tho. The quote is about ego and how men view themselves. The insecurity that we have with respect to women embarrassing or rejecting us. Whereas women understand this and fear what the consequences can be (death). One is afraid of embarrassment, the other is afraid of murder.

When I listened to the Harvey Weinstein tapes the thing that struck me was how deathly afraid he was of the woman embarrassing him in public. He used it to try to guilt her into coming with him to the hotel room...and you could tell she was deathly afraid.
Most of us men seem to put women on a pedestal.If you get reject take it as a good thing,some women are literally headaches and maybe that's their way of letting you dodge a bullet.
 

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That's thing with FWB it was about sex yet she wanted you to do relationship things "Order me a pizza".You. an always spot a talker or ghoster a mile away.

Yea I took an L. What's funny is out of all the little adventures I've had smashing chicks, I remember her the most vividly. Just little things. Even with the pizza, yea I shouldn't have done it but she sounded legit starving in the texts. I know she was kinda poor, lived with her mom and worked at a restaurant. I just remember how weirdly thankful she was for the pizza, and how much she'd eat when we'd meet up. Some women will pretend not to be hungry with you but this chick was straight up devouring food lmao.

Looked like young Meagan Good with bigger breasts
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Yea I took an L. What's funny is out of all the little adventures I've had smashing chicks, I remember her the most vividly. Just little things. Even with the pizza, yea I shouldn't have done it but she sounded legit starving in the texts. I know she was kinda poor, lived with her mom and worked at a restaurant. I just remember how weirdly thankful she was for the pizza, and how much she'd eat when we'd meet up. Some women will pretend not to be hungry with you but this chick was straight up devouring food lmao.

Looked like young Meagan Good with bigger breasts
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We all take L's it just wasn't meant to be for a good reason.At least you didn't get her pregnant and paying unwarranted child support.She can be replaced!Best believe she probably will get ghosted on down road
 

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Quote is true.Y'all have it worse when it comes to security.I know of women that will send a picture of a guy they date to their best friend and say "This is who I'm with in case something happens".It's always seem to be fear with some of y'all.

I have done this. I’ve also shared my location in case of emergency. Women are always on high alert for rape/kidnap or any sort of bodily harm; so when a man is too touchey feely on date 1 or 2 and tries to assert his dominance too soon, it freaks us out and we run for the hills.

If we haven’t been playful with you in a physical way, don’t initiate it, this will also freak us out and or turn us off. Went on a date with a guy once who bumped fists with me every 2 mins. Even though that isn’t necessarily deemed playful I saw it as needy and insecure and ghosted on him too.

I’m very sexual and will chat shyt all day but let me initiate it if u do it first my rape alarm goes off even if I’m attracted to you.
 

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I have done this. I’ve also shared my location in case of emergency. Women are always on high alert for rape/kidnap or any sort of bodily harm; so when a man is too touchey feely on date 1 or 2 and tries to assert his dominance too soon, it freaks us out and we run for the hills.

If we haven’t been playful with you in a physical way, don’t initiate it, this will also freak us out and or turn us off. Went on a date with a guy once who bumped fists with me every 2 mins. Even though that isn’t necessarily deemed playful I saw it as needy and insecure and ghosted on him too.

I’m very sexual and will chat shyt all day but let me initiate it if u do it first my rape alarm goes off even if I’m attracted to you.
I feel you :russ: :dead: at fist bump brothas really doing that every 2 second
 

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Ive been ghosted before. 3 times after sex :yeshrug:

Apparently I seem emotionally detached during and after sex and that turns chicks off :yeshrug:

Oh well:yeshrug:
 

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Ive been ghosted before. 3 times after sex :yeshrug:

Apparently I seem emotionally detached during and after sex and that turns chicks off :yeshrug:

Oh well:yeshrug:

That also turns us off; it’s like ur jacking off in my p*ssy. We get bored and our minds start to wonder. Women enjoy sex when there is passion, you will get ghosted for being detached during sex.
 

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That also turns us off; it’s like ur jacking off in my p*ssy. We get bored and our minds start to wonder. Women enjoy sex when there is passion, you will get ghosted for being detached during sex.

:yeshrug: that's more on the woman to bring the sexual passion to the sack
 
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