Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Aight here is deal,actually heard a debate whether or not a woman should help pay the tip on a 1st date.Do yall agree?disagree?
Ladies do you help pay the bill?
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the rule of thumb I go by is whoever asked, should pay including the tip. However if we agreed to go dutch or if I agreed to pay then I would do so make sure I have the tip too. I typically get the payment details before the date to avoid awkwardness.
Whoever asked should pay. That's what I do with my friends, so I expect the same on a date. Leaving the tip is a great gesture though.
Yup basically. I tend to choose things where it isn't too expensive. Ice cream, picnics etc.
Elle Driver
Veteran
NOPE.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
She at least could pay the tip.A "Thank you" is good,but at least offer and then leave it up to the dude yall date to say yes or no
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
I like ya thinkin
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
philmonroe
Superstar
Your rule of thumb is bullshyt to me and many others because how often are women the ones asking to go on the date? That's not the norm so why hide behind some bullshyt reasoning when we all know girls don't really do the asking out and or really want to pay either?
wet landscapes
ghost
I would, hypothetically 
I only date one guy at a time so I don't have a problem asking him to hang out or go on a date. I'm not going to ask random men out on a date though.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
For first dates, Im usually ready to pay my share because I tend to see it as casual since we're really just trying to get to know each other.
But if he says he got it and he's sure I'll let him pay.
But if he says he got it and he's sure I'll let him pay.
Only honest chick in this thread. All y'all other chicks trying to front for the brehs.
Depends.
If we're just eating then he should be expected to pay but if we're going to different places or bar hopping(which I've done on a first date) then I would pay for some of the drinks and other stuff. I don't feel comfortable with someone spending a lot of money on me especially when we just met.
If we're just eating then he should be expected to pay but if we're going to different places or bar hopping(which I've done on a first date) then I would pay for some of the drinks and other stuff. I don't feel comfortable with someone spending a lot of money on me especially when we just met.
Like @Mob H said..this is the only answer I believe :totheeastside: