Ladies do you date men that were in frats?

GarnetGem

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What type of issues?
refusing to grow up. one's entirely too tied to his old roommates/frat brothers/besties to the point that he followed them to a new city for a struggle job instead of staying where he was ( he dates my linesister) and the other one is busy trying to make side hustles pop off that he's being disrespectful to his organization with it. the second one was a close friend, so his current actions are contrary to his mindset when we were close
 

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Met this frat with the nicest smile and personality. Saw I was out in the corner scrolling my phone and came over and talked with me (everyone I was with was either drunk, drinking, or out in the back smoking a black). Was mad cool, never really got his contact info since he had to leave early, all I know is his name and the chapter he from

Some cool ass d9 frat dudes out there, don't believe the stereotypes y'all
 

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Followers, weak minded, gay AF, superficial, etc.

This is not the man that is going to be able to survive in the great outdoors when the grid goes down.

I like strong minded, fearless, outdoors type that know how to hunt, fish, farm, fix things and survive...

I cannot understand a man who is sitting there waiting on someone else to tell him what to do.

Disclaimer: I know all aren't like this, but the pledging process is super gay.

Don't know what kinda dudes you hanging with cuz I know my process was no where near gay.

If frat dudes yall know are on some group think, follow what everyone else says, and doing it for the women then they were weak minded from jump. The frat just makes it easier to see it.
 

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Lot of frat hate in here. But some truth. My process was official no gay shyt n im the same person after i was before. It changes people sometimes tho, even happened to one of my sands. Dont really fukk with him anymore. But frats do have groupies tho n thats never gonna change. Day after i crossed a chick on campus callin me sexxy n all this but nevervsaid a word to before. Im heffa go thata way.
 

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Lot of frat hate in here. But some truth. My process was official no gay shyt n im the same person after i was before. It changes people sometimes tho, even happened to one of my sands. Dont really fukk with him anymore. But frats do have groupies tho n thats never gonna change. Day after i crossed a chick on campus callin me sexxy n all this but nevervsaid a word to before. Im heffa go thata way.
seen this first hand.
sometimes you gotta check your frat/soror/neo/sands on that shyt.
Did it today even.
 

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a lot full of shyt, but if their over 30 very cool and can help you when it comes to networking, career development etc. A lot of it is maturity, so I wont label all. Dated some in the past and anyone who was trying to hang out with the brehs and cross folks after they graduated and trying to be in the mix probably full of it.
 

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Put it like this. I don't gaf about too much of what people are into- if you did it in college and are still close with your people with your handshakes and steps, cool. With that said, if you're the type of guy who introduces yourself and lists your frat in a non-related setting, then we prob ain't gonna see eye to eye.
 

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Put it like this. I don't gaf about too much of what people are into- if you did it in college and are still close with your people with your handshakes and steps, cool. With that said, if you're the type of guy who introduces yourself and lists your frat in a non-related setting, then we prob ain't gonna see eye to eye.

This. Important lesson that some people still don't learn: you are an individual first before anything. People that list their affiliations in non-business settings generally make me look at em like groupies.
 
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