refusing to grow up. one's entirely too tied to his old roommates/frat brothers/besties to the point that he followed them to a new city for a struggle job instead of staying where he was ( he dates my linesister) and the other one is busy trying to make side hustles pop off that he's being disrespectful to his organization with it. the second one was a close friend, so his current actions are contrary to his mindset when we were closeWhat type of issues?