Ladies (and lurking gents): What was the Make/Break Issue in Your Last Relationship?

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

In my last relationship there were a couple of issues that stemmed from his insecurities based on some financial issues he was having and where he was at in his life.
I was making moves and it made him scared I was going to leave him behind. So he started distancing himself and trying to humble or punish me emotionally to hurt me or put me in my place.

And those that know me, know the depth of evil I can descend to so after some legit emotional torture, we called a quits.

What made you call a quits in your last relationship?

 

[fckyoupayme]

Emotionally walled off but the straw that broke the camels back happened when he told me he wanted to try out polyamory

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Emotionally walled off but the straw that broke the camels back happened when he told me he wanted to try out polyamory

Yep that would do it for me too.

 

[Dwolf]

 

[Womb Raider]

when I caught her texting her ex on the textfree app


when thru all this bullshyt, caught her talking to nikkas behind my back, telling me she's loyal, that she don't talk to her exes etc. just to catch her doing that shyt

 

[daiquiridream]

He was too jealous. Went thru my phone everyday. Didn’t want me going anywhere without him. Would even get jealous if I cuddled our pets for more than a few minutes. Way too possessive treated me like I was his property. Sent me a WYD text at least every half hour.

Supposedly Aries men are always like this but it was so unattractive And inexcusable

 

[fckyoupayme]

He was too jealous. Went thru my phone everyday. Didn’t want me going anywhere without him. Would even get jealous if I cuddled our pets for more than a few minutes. Way too possessive treated me like I was his property. Sent me a WYD text at least every half hour.

Supposedly Aries men are always like this but it was so unattractive And inexcusable

That is an insane level of jealousy. I’m glad you got out of that relationship unscathed.

 

[Ms. Quick]

He said he wanted to see other people. So, I ate some ice cream, cried, watched some shytty Asian dramas, bought some vegetables, maintained my weight and was single for a while. Eventually met someone else who I now love, and that was when my ex tried to get back into the picture. I blocked him everywhere, social media, etc but he somehow managed to find my Reddit account and I made a new one. Pretty uneventful otherwise. Wish him well. I don’t hate him but nah.

 

[Elle Driver]

Psycho behavior started creeping out so I had to dead it.

 

[CinnaSlim]

- Relocation
- Not ready to settle down/ not ready to share resources/ not ready to make another a priority
- Healthy boundaries/ respecting other's boundaries
- Being treated less than I deserve.

Lessons from my past relationships:
- Value myself. Dont wait for/rely on others to show that they value/ respect me.
- Believe people when they show you who they are... the first time.
- It's not my job to fix others. They have to want help/ want to change themselves.
- I am worthy of being valued, honored and respected. Worthy of being taken care of. I can trust that someone will be able to do so. I dont have to do everything myself.
- Do not deplete myself/give what I need in order to give to others. Give of the overflow.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

In my last relationship there were a couple of issues that stemmed from his insecurities based on some financial issues he was having and where he was at in his life.
I was making moves and it made him scared I was going to leave him behind. So he started distancing himself and trying to humble or punish me emotionally to hurt me or put me in my place.

And those that know me, know the depth of evil I can descend to so after some legit emotional torture, we called a quits.

What made you call a quits in your last relationship?

not tryna play Devil's Advocate or anything, but.....were you planning on dippin on breh if the moves you made started to come into fruition, and his didnt?

 

[mag357]

She went out/wanted to go out wit friends

 

[Stuntone]

My last girlfriend was in the army. Relationship was great, no arguments, sex was great, she was beautiful and down to earth. She got deployed to Germany. I ended up moving back to Louisiana.and getting established. She got stationed in Carolina. Made e7 and wanted me to move there. Have kids and be a family. She was going to take care of everything until I found a job. Just couldn't dont. Too many unknowns. We really never had a big fight . Didn't know how she would respond to adversity. And I can't depend on a woman like that. We decided to just have a kid and coparent for now. Then I met my new girlfriend. She was pissed. we still cool and might hookup later

 

[Caca-faat]

The sex wasnt up to par.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

walled off

We were close then he became distance. Come to find out later on, there was overlap with the side chick. But I left soon as he got distant.