Lack of self respect or pleasing your man?

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You have no problem with a man doing this to you if he provides that lifestyle for u?
I gives no fukks cause ill probably be callin him all types of cracca kike spic ******s my damn self
 

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shyt pass him to me bytch
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This article has been reposted countless times on countless forums... Seems highly suspect... while I don't doubt that some women would take that type of thing... something about this screams fake
 

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That shyt is :camby:status. I wouldn't have her problem because I'd have enough of my own money to live a lavish lifestyle :mj:
 

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I know there are a lot of "Pawg" lovers and woman who date on the other side on here so I thought I would share this article. Is this a common occurrence? What would you do (ladies or men) if your S/O starting spewing racial slurs?

http://www.essence.com/2013/04/08/intimacy-intervention-my-husband-uses-racial-slurs-during-sex/

My man keeps calling me a “****** bytch” during sex and I hate it.

I have been married for a year and I am at my wit’s end. My investment banker husband is from a White old money family. I am a first generation Black-American woman whose family is from the island of Jamaica. We met at a reunion for the ivy league school we both attended, and he proposed in six months.

We have the picture perfect fantasy life. He wines and dines me and we travel and shop the globe. Unlike all of the Black men I dated in the past, my husband is generous, loyal, committed and considerate. He courted me and I never have to pay for anything. He said I could quit my job and I did. He makes me feel like a woman.

I am a little embarrassed to share our problem. The first time he let the n-word drop was during sex on our honeymoon. When I reacted negatively, he explained that a Black woman he dated in the past enjoyed being called racial slurs. Another time he joked that he had purchased my freedom. He also speculated about whether his family could have owned mine because I have “good hair.” Then he made jokes about my pubic hair. He called it my “negro bush” and referred to himself as a “****** lover.” He says I am being overly sensitive because he loves me to death and should get a “Black pass” for marrying me.

I told him that I don’t appreciate these comments and he says that my friends and family probably use the n-word all the time. He also asked why Black people can use the word and he cannot. I don’t use the word or believe in the nikka/****** differentiation. Neither does my family. I am too embarrassed to tell anyone about this because I know they might say: “That’s what she gets for marrying a White man.”

Every time we try having sex again, the slurs fly. Our sex life is pretty much over right now because I pretend to be asleep every time my sexy, handsome man wants to be with me. I feel completely turned off. I love my husband deeply so please don’t tell me to leave him because that’s not what I want to do.

My husband was my first interracial relationship. Please tell me racial slurs aren’t normal between interracial couples? I would like to figure this out before we have kids but I can’t afford to leave him and still maintain my lifestyle.

How can I regain my sexual attraction for my husband?

Signed,Black and Proud


@Anothergirl Getting ethered by the hubby. :wow:
 

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Another time he joked that he had purchased my freedom. :ohhh:
He also speculated about whether his family could have owned mine because I have “good hair.” :wow:
Then he made jokes about my pubic hair. He called it my “negro bush” and referred to himself as a “****** lover.” :patrice:
He says I am being overly sensitive because he loves me to death and should get a “Black pass” for marrying me.
:beli:




This shyt is so crazy to me. I remember i had 6 cac roomates in Iraq.. they didn't know i was in the room, n they were talking maddddd racial type shyt bout this black chick but then also say how 1 was gonna fukk her.. . I told her and her homegirl about it.

She still let that cac beat the pus... Even if this article is fake, this shyt is real.
 

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Another time he joked that he had purchased my freedom. :ohhh:
He also speculated about whether his family could have owned mine because I have “good hair.” :wow:
Then he made jokes about my pubic hair. He called it my “negro bush” and referred to himself as a “****** lover.” :patrice:
He says I am being overly sensitive because he loves me to death and should get a “Black pass” for marrying me.
:beli:




This shyt is so crazy to me. I remember i had 6 cac roomates in Iraq.. they didn't know i was in the room, n they were talking maddddd racial type shyt bout this black chick but then also say how 1 was gonna fukk her.. . I told her and her homegirl about it.

She still let that cac beat the pus... Even if this article is fake, this shyt is real.
What were they saying if you don't mind me asking :ohhh:
 

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What were they saying if you don't mind me asking :ohhh:
started off ok, "u know brittney that black chick on nights"

but then..
"I love black p*ssy"
"u do? I never fukked a black girl"
"All them black girls hair is out of 'regs', most of it looks fukked up"
"lol , i wish i could fukk her in the ass"



IDK.. I guess it was too racial.... but I was madd as fukk cuz they kept mentioning her being black, so that made me think it was some fetish shyt.. like it was some cool shyt to do.
 

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started off ok, "u know brittney that black chick on nights"

but then..
"I love black p*ssy"
"u do? I never fukked a black girl"
"All them black girls hair is out of 'regs', most of it looks fukked up"
"lol , i wish i could fukk her in the ass"



IDK.. I guess it was too racial.... but I was madd as fukk cuz they kept mentioning her being black, so that made me think it was some fetish shyt.. like it was some cool shyt to do.
Meh doesn't sound racist to me, just as you stated, like some fetish shyt. But if I were her after hearing that I wouldn't have given him any poon.
 

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Meh doesn't sound racist to me, just as you stated, like some fetish shyt. But if I were her after hearing that I wouldn't have given him any poon.
i would have smacked that craker if it wouldn't have fukked up my paper.... and if i didn't know she was gonna give the pus anyway.

That comfortable shyt is what usually leads to high levels of bold cacerism.
 
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