Yeah, it's super easy to fumble also. You miss a subtle ass sign or say the wrong thing and the girl is already on to the next dude.Yeah once you out of high school/college you're 100% on your own. Meeting women is all up to you and a lot of dudes don't have the gift of gab, so they rely on their social circle.
That's why it makes sense for the average male to only have 6-10 sexual partners in their lifetime.