Then if they can not get over that then stop going into high earning fields and taking high paying jobs. If you are going to keep seeking those types of jobs that pay well then they better learn to get over that shyt and be like men. Do not take what you like about equality and leave what you do not. Also, if you are making big bucks and find someone that is making the same, then why quit in the first place and miss out on that extra money that could be put toward your family? Most of the men i work with have wives that are making equal money give or take a few 10k, and for the women the same thing.
Their lives are so much easier having two streams of income, so i do not understand quitting from your job that you most likely went to school for (not to mention any school debt) once you have kids and putting strain on the finances trying to live a certain lifestyle.