Well yeah! Ya’ll must not know what broken women will do for attention. ANY attention.
And they do ask me. I get clowned as a pickme or going off girl-code all the time. Hell I got bytches writing me 4 page letters from over 12 years ago b/c apparently some shyt I said years ago still burned their souls.
The thing is, blk men and blk women like it when people are talking shyt about anybody but them. But when it’s their turn it’s all “you a feminist bytch! You hate black men you hate female accountability” or “you a mammie” “you just coddle black men”
However some are also masochists who love getting fukked over for likes. It makes them emo martyrs.
What people DONT want to hear is that they are socially weird, don’t know how to talk to people or make friends and been struggling with that shyt since grade school.
So they think hitting the gym will help. Or making money will help. Or getting a weave will help. Or a new car. Or flat tummy tea.
They don’t want to face themselves. Meanwhile there are dudes with six packs that are still awkward as fukk and mad if chicks fall for chubby dudes with dad bods.
There are chicks with banging bodies that suck a mean dikk that still get tossed to the curb while some plain Jane is getting wifed up.
People doing everything to look good on paper but still repelling the opposite sex. Others are sitting online PRETENDING to look good on paper and still rubbing their Cheeto stained fingers across a keyboard talm bout being a prize.
STAPH IT!
Men and women need to recalibrate. Learn how to hold a damn conversation. Stop the gender bullshyt. Stop thinking you better then somebody else b/c of what you got between your legs. Learn to like the people that like you even if they ain’t dymepieces or Idris Elba. Stop dating to get back at the people that clowned you or didn’t want you in high school. Wash yo stank ass and clean up your dirty ass crib. Look for actual regular, degular partners to build with and treat them well. And please for the love of god cultivate some conversational skills and some social skills to make people comfortable in your presence and WANT to be around you regardless of how you look. Instead of being a bitter weirdo with seething resentment oozing from your pores.
Chicks don’t want to hear that from a woman any more than men do. They’d rather be emotional masochists and justify their feelings of low worth by getting treated like garbage online because at least they can get some attention and being treated like trash is their comfort zone.
Once you see the pattern, you can’t unsee it.
Honestly, I don’t even know how this shyt isn’t obvious to others. If you are just a dude who wants to see chicks getting shytted on because some have talked so much shyt in the past, then I get it.
But if you actually falling for this shyt...
like taking it seriously?!
I don’t know what to tell you.
He’s Oprah for men. And I don’t trust her either so