Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[HarlemHottie]

I dont like that analogy. Children act out due to a lack of something being in their life more so than not seeing a prize for being good. These children then grow up to be the dysfunctional adults we are talking about (assuming they didnt have a pivotal moment that changed their perspective).

Sorry, i said stuff in my head but not in text.


I meant scholastically. They show out in school bc what's the point if all you gon do realistically is work at dollar tree anyway?

 

[CASHAPP]

@HarlemHottie I got a question for you, do you think a woman can view a man as alpha who was once a beta male but changed? Lets say they never were in a relationship and he never came onto her heavy but they were cordial like lets say coworkers or something. Meaning if she witnessed the growth he made and she is a submissive feminine woman do you think they could work together? Or would a woman subconsciously always view him as beta even if they changed drastically

 

[HarlemHottie]

@HarlemHottie I got a question for you, do you think a woman can view a man as alpha who was once a beta male but changed? Lets say they never were in a relationship and he never came onto her heavy but they were cordial like lets say coworkers or something. Meaning if she witnessed the growth he made and she is a submissive feminine woman do you think they could work together? Or would a woman subconsciously always view him as beta even if they changed drastically

It depends on their first romantic encounter, by which i mean, the first time he really lays his game down. Give her alpha and she'll just assume that's the private 'him."


Although... how beta was he?

 

[CASHAPP]

It depends on their first romantic encounter, by which i mean, the first time he really lays his game down. Give her alpha and she'll just assume that's the private 'him."


Although... how beta was he?

more beta in terms of being quiet and lacking confidence but not really thirsting after her begging for her number or calling her pretty all the time

idk something like that lol

 

[HarlemHottie]

more beta in terms of being quiet and lacking confidence but not really thirsting after her begging for her number or calling her pretty all the time

idk something like that lol

Then "he" should follow my initial suggestion. But the game gotta be sKrong that first time, and "he" must maintain frame privately. She wouldn't naturally expect it publicly bc thats not how she met him, but it would be a welcome addition.

This is all assuming she wit it. Has she exhibited any interest?

****coli brehs, please tell me if you disagree with my advice****

 

[Houston911]

@HarlemHottie how do you feel about high value men “exercising options”?

I’d like to hear a level headed sistas take on that

 

[CASHAPP]

Then "he" should follow my initial suggestion. But the game gotta be sKrong that first time, and "he" must maintain frame privately. She wouldn't naturally expect it publicly bc thats not how she met him, but it would be a welcome addition.

This is all assuming she wit it. Has she exhibited any interest?

****coli brehs, please tell me if you disagree with my advice****

Thanks. I will tell "him" and he should appreciate the advice. the girl in question seems to fit all the traits of a feminine submissive woman. a little bit of shyness to her, soft-spoken, doesn't curse often, treats disabled and elderly respectfully, doesn't have wandering eyes like the other thots at work . wears her natural hair all the time in braids, dresses very classy all the time

as for exhibiting interest, my friend tells me he has gotten mixed vibes, she is hard to read so he can't tell if because of her feminine submissive nature if she is doing the old let me be nice to him because she is nice to people in general. other times though she will show the signs of interest by finding ways to be in his vicinity like she wants a convo to be started, randomly staring and smiling more than a few seconds, playing with her hair...

but then she goes back into super hard work mode in her own zone and being standoffish lmao. btw she has admitted to several people at different times about how shy she is and how she doesn't want to transfer to different locations because it was so hard for her to get used to where she is already. basically she has put out signs she is introverted so yeah with her it may be even more difficult to figure out

 

[HarlemHottie]

@HarlemHottie how do you feel about high value men “exercising options”?

I’d like to hear a level headed sistas take on that

Keep his balls empty and his belly full and the problem wouldn't even arise. (pun )

If he still feels compelled, id negotiate conditions. I try to be reasonable.

But, tbh, i sorted for faithful men bc I don't need these problems in my life. I mentioned earlier itt that I had an open relationship in HS (more adult than it sounds). I found that, while I could deal with it, I couldn't deal long term.

But when you start early, you can sort for particular qualities/ deal breakers.

 

[CASHAPP]

The thing is a lot of men could get a free hall pass by their girl or wife to fukk around and they still fukk it up by

Running their mouth to all their boys to brag
Bringing the broads to the family home
Getting someone pregnant
fukking someone in the same town/city

 

[Easy-E]

I skimmed that thread and I didn't come across a woman saying what roles that they were willing to continue to do. I didn't read all of the comments, but I read and didn't come across one

It was all about what the man should still continue to do

Thankfully I had a back and forth with a woman with sense.

But, even she tried to check my pockets a lil.



I promise the rest of the exchange was civil.

 

[Apollo Creed]

more beta in terms of being quiet and lacking confidence but not really thirsting after her begging for her number or calling her pretty all the time

idk something like that lol

there is a diff between silent and stoic and being scary

 

[Easy-E]

@ the gif. So you already know.

These little things are what ppl miss when they focus on looks and weight. I honestly think moving gracefully adds to my smv. That can be taught.

Again, 95% a modern man, but, it cannot be denied being in the corporate world/rat race has done a number on black women's femininity.

I know it's not that simple, but, sheesh, I'm still tripping off smiling being some time of overreach for a young woman.

Really, it's strategic thing like two black men are in a space and give each other "The Nod."

You introduce yourself as friendly. At worst they share a few words with you, but, I thought that is normal is a public setting.



But, ladies, cross ya legs, open legs gives men feelings are natural and involuntary. Especially since ya'll wanna wear tight leggings every day.

 

[Music Fiend]

Theres a few things I've seen KS be hypocritical about

One is pairing with someone based on potential early on and growing together. But he also uses this when women are young and in relationships saying well if you want this type of man why are you with this type of man?

I'd like to see him lean into dating a regular guy and building a lot more. A lot of people don't know how to build. There's some folks who do get together and a few years in get hit with the reality of the relationship and their own and their partners issues and struggles. Then the women run.

More than ever I see more women leaving relationships claiming abuse, emotional invalidation, laziness, etc from their ex partner.

There are still women left on this forum? Thought they all left
Anyway, from to some of the women on Kevin's show what has become clear to me is that black-american women are more controlling than i gave them credit for. In most communities men and women understand they are equals under the law but they understand and acknowledge that they are not the same. I dont think a lot of black american women fully accept that notion. And before i come under notice i used the word "same" when talking about what we are not. All that gender neutral shot got some mofos out on facebook all confused

I won't say controlling, I'd say they have blended our expectations of women to become their expectation of men. Men went to work work, women did the house work. Women are okay in 2021 doing work that is at a cubicle. But any manual work they want no parts of, even in their home. Women don't decorate, create, cook, clean.

Basically women want to be the masculine brain, and want men to be the masculine brawn. Aka Chief vs indian, with the attitude of I expect a man to do everything I don't want to do. "I point and he gets it done." Thats your use in their minds. But unfortunately this often includes anything domestic too. Meanwhile she'll also tell you "your money is the families money".

I skimmed that thread and I didn't come across a woman saying what roles that they were willing to continue to do. I didn't read all of the comments, but I read and didn't come across one

It was all about what the man should still continue to do

Pretty much. Men are an accessory to women. This is why the leave relationships more often. because if you wont do it, some man will, even if it is a mega simp and she doesnt respect him.

 

[Music Fiend]

Ima just drop this here and log out

 

[Leao2005]

This caller on IG making me real cry smh I hate see our community like this