This is the realest thing written and western society is suffering from the lack of openness and veracity.
It's why I stress that folks lay out what they want out of a relationship at the beginning.
Too many dudes are scared to have the "I want to be able to still have some strange" conversation because they know the woman they chose won't accept it.
They also know that if she is cool with it, the next question maybe that she might want some random strange herself.
So instead they justify it with "Men are just exercising options" etc etc. Then gaslight women like it's her fault they cheated.
The inverse is similar, I don't even want to look at her anymore. I've been holding up my end, but you clearly had a different definition of a relationship.
We could go on for sure, but I think it's pretty simple. Folks don't want to be transparent at the end of the day.
Just find a man/woman who is ok with what you are putting down and vice versa.
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