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I don’t get it with women and age. Why do they care about a man’s age so much?

I think women have an aversion to marrying older men because they have to inevitably do all of the child rearing/ take care of an old man if her husband is like 10+ years older than her.
That is exhausting, to be a mother and personal caretaker to an old aging husband.
Obviously cases differ but, that's the gist. Most women want to enter old age with their spouse, not take care of their spouse.

Why should they care if they only want money though? They gotta pick one.

I’m not even talking about a big gap like that.

This one chick said she was 34 and was focused on dating a 40 year old man at the oldest instead of a 45-50 year old man.

Think about it: when a woman is 45-50, her husband is going to be in their 60s, and that's when problems with old age begin. 10+ year age gap suck in that regard because women end up doing majority of the child rearing( that doesn't end at 18), and taking care of their husbands.

I have seen this in my own family where my grandma spent majority of her early retirement as a caretaker to my grandpa who was only a decade older than her.

Men generally get sick and die faster, so yeah.
And couples with an older man and younger women typically occur in societies where arranged marriage is the majority of marriages. There is a reason for this.

But you seem like a misogynist with your women just want to do nothing comment so I am assuming you tend to forget that married men live longer because women end up taking majority of the household burdens from them.

So maybe my point will make you pause and think but if your entire mindset towards marriage/age gaps is to regard women as "lazy", I think you need to fix your mindset.
 
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1) Did you even read the website you cited? It's an ulta-conservative website that hired Pence to write articles for them. That don't have US, Black people in mind. I'm sure if they could openly advocate for segregation they would. They have some articles that imply it.

2) How Johnson Fought the War on Poverty: The Economics and Politics of Funding at the Office of Economic Opportunity


3) Both things can co-exist. The "War on Poverty" and “War on Drugs” happened simultaneously. Yet, I believe mass incarceration led to more black women/families being on welfare to supplement a missing income. Welfare rules and regulation may have reinforced the breakdown of the black family, but it started with criminalization.


Where did you see me discount that?

If they happened simultaneously then why are you highlighting one over the other. You don't have to go the extra mile to promote Black Feminism
 

Exlurkernegro

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We just going to agree to disagree. I feel online we can't be honest about DS chicks because dudes be overcompensating but this chick ain't it. Even if she lost weight she wouldn't be attractive facially.

My standards aren't high so take my opinion with a grain of salt.
 

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I'm going to piggyback off this thread
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/but-they-say-black-athletes-are-always-marrying-white-women.837310/


Kev talks about preferences of high value men but none of the black women in this video fit the standards he talks about



High Value pertaining to business class. Not athlete and entertainment.

Completely different worlds.

Those people would be considered “talent”, but there are a few people in that world that meet the exception.
 
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High Value pertaining to business class. Not athlete and entertainment.

Completely different worlds.

Those people would be considered “talent”, but there are a few people in that world that meet the exception.

Are you sure you didn't make that up breh? Kevin never said that. He does not separate a high value man who is in entertainer, athlete, medical field, and etcetera from those who work in business. And I mean many athletes, entertainers, doctors, and etcetera have their own businesses too. He has a whole video defining a high value man.
 

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Are you sure you didn't make that up breh? Kevin never said that. He does not separate a high value man who is in entertainer, athlete, medical field, and etcetera from those who work in business. And I mean many athletes, entertainers, doctors, and etcetera have their own businesses too. He has a whole video defining a high value man.

He's said many times his focus is not on athletes or entertainers but the business class
 
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