all the ones saying this can’t. The ones that can are happily married and not seeking validation online. A substantial portion of those chicks probably got w/ the dude in the building phase.
I kinda don't mind them saying it though. If it bares out they'll get what they want, if it doesn't and they don't realign there expectations based on their value then they'll end up childless (hopefully) and alone. That's the risk.
Everyone wants to get the best man/woman possible.
Why are these chicks able to get validation from men online though? I think if guys stopped feeding into alot of this bullshxt they wouldn't do it as much.
Men are supposed set the energy and narrative in our communities not women. And thats because we are supposed to be in leadership positions in our community and culture.
Hoes keep winning because men keep letting them. Be it with time, money, or attention. Women see hoe like behavior winning so they replicate hoe like behavior.