I don't watch or listen to shows like his. You have some of these self help gurus that cater to women like Trent Shelton and that other dark skinned brother that looks like a NFL middle linebacker (I forgot his name). Then you have this Kevin Samuels guy that caters more to men.
The reality is times have changed and unlike the era that your mom, dad, and grandparents grew up in there was no internet, social media, or reality shows. People watch that shyt and it warps their sense of reality. Most of the time that shyt is scripted or as in the case of social media most people post all the good things that happen for them and none of the bad.
Most women and men alike see people they perceive to be on their level whether they are or not in reality is another conversation and they start having all these unrealistic expectations for their own lives.
As sad as it sounds most people base their happiness and reality on someone else's success, approval, and happiness. The internet age has done nothing but magnified this even more.