Another thing that dude put out there was the reality of things, I can say that I was under the impression that BW were making moves in the workplace, making all types of $$$, being that the media pushed this whole "independent black movement" as a status quo to make it appear that black women were winning, when in fact, many BW don't make over 50K.
The average black woman's earners are 28k or something maybe in the 30k range. I was caught off guard with this notion because the media pushed out the narrative to make it appear that Black women were getting to the so call bag
Many are earning under 50k, only 9% are making over 75k. When KS presented those facts and kept pushing those facts out, things started to make plenty of sense.
The fact that he pushed that 80% of our kids in our community come from single mothers, and that 16% of men create these kids, that fact hit home.
Many of these BW want the same guy.
1 out of 4 black women are on some type of meds
1 out of 4 black women will get married, 3 won't ever see a husband.
75% - 80% of divorces are filed by black women
With all of these things going on, it's no wonder why a woman can't rest in their femineity, having to be masculine all that time. Being masculine, all the time, is because you have to survive and live paycheck to paycheck or just be frustrated at life, no man to call a husband etc. Bio clock is ticking.
Pressure is made for shoulders, not hips
Just these stats alone should humble some of these black women, the whole retiring alone setup, that there should make you want to find a husband and get into your feminine role, lose the attitude, etc
I can say that I learned a lot from this dude in the time that he was here, just on relationships, men and women.