I'll tell you brehs something. I had the opportunity to travel to Sousa, Dominican Republic this past weekend and I am here to tell all you brehs, GO OVER THERE.
I had the time of my life, experienced some great food and great women, very peaceful and relaxing. The thing that I brought back with me, yes, the women are over there "working" and it's many of them, from the clerks in the grocery stores, the bank tellers, waitress at the restaurants, regular everyday women etc, you can pretty much have any woman at your leisure that you want, but the thing that separated them from the women over here was their femininity, cooperation, gentleness. Yea they were working per say, but not at any time I felt rushed, ran into any attitude, stuck-up-ness, entitlement, none of that was present, nor did I see a fat out of shape woman over there, if I had to say, I'd say maybe 2. I was waited on, I was the 'center' of attention.
I say all this to say that I got the sense of how your Kevin Durants, your P.Diddys, Futures, the James Hardens and many other brehs that have that status over here in the West, are able to pick and deal with whatever kind of woman that they want, that they don't have to put up with the nonsense that many Western women carry, and if they do run into a woman with attitude or a woman who is not cooperating, they can dismiss that woman and get another one that's badder and who is willing to listen. That peace or aura or peace that I experienced over there was amazing.
I get it.
No games being played with dealing with the women there, I didn't have to try and get the women over there to like me (I am an ok looking dude, which helped), but none of that was done over there, and again, I know they are "workers" but just cutting through all the BS, red tape, was something I had never experienced and brehs, that shyt is a stress reliever to be able to get the woman that you want without jumping through hoops.
It was at times, and so simple, Me just walking, and seeing a beautiful woman that caught my attention, waving the woman over to come to me, she came, baddie, nothing under an 8, pulling my phone out and asking them to put their name and number in my phone, and them texting me that they wanna spend time with me.
I didn't have to hold long conversations, I didn't have to go on 2-3 dates or any of that nonsense to get what I wanted, and then when I got tired of the woman or if I saw another woman that I wanted, I could go and get/obtain her for my own pleasure.
It was a situation where another breh that was out there, we are in a restaurant, the breh is sitting a table across from me, he's with a baddie, baddie, (I wanted her) she was rubbing on his shoulders gently, not on some worship shyt, but just appreciative of him and that he picked her to spend time with, translating the information in English for the breh, she poured his water glass, kept it filled, wiped his mouth when he had crumbs around it, handed him napkins, he would tell her what he wanted from the waiter, she translated the info in Spanish.
Now I'm sitting there just smiling ear to ear, with joy, seeing the peace on the breh face, saying to myself, that dude may not ever get this at his own home back in the WEST, but he's getting it now. I'm happy for breh.
I got up and went over and gave the breh a dap and went back to my table to enjoy my meal and company I had with me.
Brehs I say all that to say again, Do yourself a favor and go there and experience that peace.
I think that trip has really hurt me in a way, because I know that peace can be achieved. A breh that posted, said he has gotten it with his wife, peace to you breh. brehs can get it over here, but you have to have patience
Even if it's for a weekend or 4 days, that peace and that experience is worth it. I met many brehs, older and middle age brehs, who said that they take trips there 4-9 times out a year.