(Sigh) Part of the reason I don’t like him is b/c he spits these hot takes without any historical nuance or context.
He does it when he fixes his mouth to bytch about women. And dudes just go along with it b/c they wanna see chicks get humbled.
Now when he does it to blk men, it’s JUST as bad. And cringeworthy.
It’s not about deflecting to blaming systemic white supremacy.
But it’s important to understand that tge shyt didn’t just come outta nowhere. Blks weren’t born like this. Nor can we just expect blks to pull themselves out of their dysfunction if we too shook to even acknowledge the sources of social conditioning that lead to this type of behavior.
A LOT of posters have cursed me out and argued me down claiming I “hate female accountability” when I used to clown this dude for his oversimplification and humiliation of blk women for clout and fame.
Some will go with this idiot to the bitter end but now I hope some dudes understand why I say this dude ain’t it. He’s just providing fodder for racists.
If you wanna talk about blk male hypersexuality, then don’t be intellectually dishonest. Talk about how fukked up Western culture is when it comes to gender dynamics in the first place and how that has contributed to this hypersexual shyt in the first place. Then tell the truth about how we were born into a toxic ass society, had these tropes superimposed upon our community, then had opportunities stripped away from African Americans time and time again until all that’s left for some is to locate their value in their genitalia. Then talk about how our community is INUNDATED with negative imagery of extremes based on the European sick way of understanding gender dynamics and their fascination with Blacks as hypersexual brutes and Jezebels.
THEN we can have a nuanced discussion about ways to fix this shyt. But without dismantling some very harmful paradigms in this fukked up society, having these types of discussions on a public platform is ironically only perpetuating the shyt he claims to want to fix.
Why can’t people see that? I saw the writing on the wall when he was alluding to blk women being masculine and manly and some skipped all over the obvious b/c u were drunk on the novelty of women you desire that don’t want you getting humiliated online.
When that kitten heel turns and he starts promoting racist stereotypes of blk men under the banner of “accountability” I hope people will understand what I’d been saying in the past.
Or not. This shyt is NOT fixing our community. There’s a better way to address these types of issues.
You said what I wanted to say better than I could have said it. My only disagreement with you is at the end when you say that this shyt is not fixing our community. Though he is ultimately doing a poor job in the way that he is raising this issue, it is valuable, given the reach that he has, that he is bringing light to this mindset that probably the majority of young black men have. We are suffering because of it. I am no exception to this. Some of my worst decisions have been as a result of believing that my sexual prowess is what defines my worth.(Sigh) Part of the reason I don’t like him is b/c he spits these hot takes without any historical nuance or context.
He does it when he fixes his mouth to bytch about women. And dudes just go along with it b/c they wanna see chicks get humbled.
Now when he does it to blk men, it’s JUST as bad. And cringeworthy.
It’s not about deflecting to blaming systemic white supremacy.
But it’s important to understand that tge shyt didn’t just come outta nowhere. Blks weren’t born like this. Nor can we just expect blks to pull themselves out of their dysfunction if we too shook to even acknowledge the sources of social conditioning that lead to this type of behavior.
A LOT of posters have cursed me out and argued me down claiming I “hate female accountability” when I used to clown this dude for his oversimplification and humiliation of blk women for clout and fame.
Some will go with this idiot to the bitter end but now I hope some dudes understand why I say this dude ain’t it. He’s just providing fodder for racists.
If you wanna talk about blk male hypersexuality, then don’t be intellectually dishonest. Talk about how fukked up Western culture is when it comes to gender dynamics in the first place and how that has contributed to this hypersexual shyt in the first place. Then tell the truth about how we were born into a toxic ass society, had these tropes superimposed upon our community, then had opportunities stripped away from African Americans time and time again until all that’s left for some is to locate their value in their genitalia. Then talk about how our community is INUNDATED with negative imagery of extremes based on the European sick way of understanding gender dynamics and their fascination with Blacks as hypersexual brutes and Jezebels.
THEN we can have a nuanced discussion about ways to fix this shyt. But without dismantling some very harmful paradigms in this fukked up society, having these types of discussions on a public platform is ironically only perpetuating the shyt he claims to want to fix.
Why can’t people see that? I saw the writing on the wall when he was alluding to blk women being masculine and manly and some skipped all over the obvious b/c u were drunk on the novelty of women you desire that don’t want you getting humiliated online.
When that kitten heel turns and he starts promoting racist stereotypes of blk men under the banner of “accountability” I hope people will understand what I’d been saying in the past.
Or not. This shyt is NOT fixing our community. There’s a better way to address these types of issues.
The coli: this city is better than this city because this city has better strip clubs and girls with fat asses
I always appreciate it when someone brings academic research into TLR convosThe pioneering academic couple on Samuels' observations have been Drs. Nathan and Julia Hare.
Their books on these subjects 30 years ago, warned of what Samuels addresses for both women and men.
No..he's right. And what he's saying is the same thing my black teachers said to me all the way back in high school. I don't like KS or listen to him much but he's right on this one. And to say this isn't a problem in the black community is foolish.
His audience already complains about the length of the monologues. The message gets lost if no one has the patience to listen. He's speaking to a generation with short attention spans, the same type who miss your gems bc they scroll past your posts.
You're missing HIS point bc you're making it about YOUR point. As women, it's not our place to critique the manner in which an elder bm teaches the youngins. Not our lane at all and runs the risk of alienating the audience. That said, a goodly proportion of bm seem to place a lot of personal currency in their dikks. Maybe not the men you/ we know, but maybe bc that's how we select which men to have around. All bw dont have that luxury.
I wonder about this bc, afaik, my grandmother n nem wasnt twerking. And my grandma used to dance at the Savoy, she was literally being thrown over nikkas shoulders and flipping and shyt.
So she was 'outside'. Used to stand on her head at the house well into middle age. Never no twerking. Moms neither.
Is this pro twerk revisionist history?
I can totally see this.
This thread is a masterclass on the art of deflection from even a semblance of accountability. Brothers won't even engage in the thought experiment because it's a bridge too far.
You can tolerate someone you believe is gay when they're shytting on women but at soon as he asks you to your imagination to do a self assessment, all of a sudden he's too gay.
No he isn’t right, he’s s c00n and you have internalized white supremacist bullshyt talking points about Black pathology.
at his voice inflection when keep saying "dikk"