Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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with no background in marriage and relationship therapy, psychology, gender-related issues, or anything relevant to his platform, he spews out “advice” devoid of social context. He blatantly ignores gender and racial socialization and refuses to address the history of racist, sexist ideals or the role of societal oppression in the way Black women are viewed.

I had to quote this, again, there's no way she watches the show.

He's just on fukking YouTube, he doesn't need a doctorate to do what he does. By his own admissions, he's twice divorce and has been in the relationship discussion space since the 80's.

One of the biggest things I've gone sour on is how EVERYTHING revolves around our "oppression" and "society."

The solutions are gonna always revolve around us getting to a place of critical analysis where we began to make moves DESPITE "oppression" and "society."

Again, he's spoke about that.

People who hate him have higher expectations of him than people who watch. He's nobodies "daddie" or "expert." He's not a therapist. He's a well dressed black man on YouTube.

Again, nobody tells those women on The View that they aren't qualified to talk about relationships.
Kevin always advocates for people, in this case women, to seek professional help. Most times people will just say pray about it, talk to your pastor, etc. He actually advocates for people to seek a clinical therapist for their issues.

Of course a lot of his critics don't even mention that which shows they don't actually watch his videos but just bits and pieces or whatever goes viral. :francis:
 

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Women Know that they have to self improve to get the best dudes. This chick is a strong 6 and depending on attitude and cooperation could be wifed up in a second, but yet she's mad that she called in and was told that she doesn't qualify for an 8 figure nikka that she would never meet in real life.

The delusion
What's crazy is a 6 is average or above average which is nothing wrong with that. I looked through her IG and she's cute. I don't know how she looks when not glammed up but body wise, dudes would be willing to wife.

A lot of women be so damn dillusional when it comes to ratings. Reminds me of the one chick who called in about a week or so ago who thought she was on the level of Beyonce. :mjlol: She was about average looking but she could probably get wifed up but they think they deserve a pro athlete, rapper, or a white collar man making 100k+ a year. Ain't nothing wrong with a truck driver, mechanic, plumber, hvac tech, etc! :mjtf: If he ain't no bum living off his mama, keeps and maintains a good job, and can put you in a decent apartment or house then why are you passing him by?!:mjtf:
 

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What kind of drinks u make
:mjlol: Your question was a single sentence and i wrote a whole damn book.

Iced tea. I keep organic black and green tea bags in bulk. If i see fancy flavored organic tea bags at marshalls i get those and then mix a few of those with a green/ black tea base. If i dont have store bought, i stuff the tea bags myself, the ones you iron closed. I usually have some dried hibiscus or peppermint around (mountainroseherbs.com). If its cold season i add oregano or thyme or something. Sometimes i make a chai type of drink but add turmeric.

For a while, i was buying unsweeted juice concentrates from vitacost. Cranberry, pomegranate, etc. Apple concentrate for sweetness. But we stopped buying from them when the Corona hit cuz they ain't have shyt. (Using concentrates gives you more of a 'juice', but i used them to flavor teas too.)

Smoothies when im in a groove. In the future, id like to make my own pre sweetened concentrates to cut down on labor. I wanted a soda stream before i found out it was an Israeli company, but Amazon tells me there are other, similar manufacturers.
 

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:mjlol: Your question was a single sentence and i wrote a whole damn book.

Iced tea. I keep organic black and green tea bags in bulk. If i see fancy flavored organic tea bags at marshalls i get those and then mix a few of those with a green/ black tea base. If i dont have store bought, i stuff the tea bags myself, the ones you iron closed. I usually have some dried hibiscus or peppermint around (mountainroseherbs.com). If its cold season i add oregano or thyme or something. Sometimes i make a chai type of drink but add turmeric.

For a while, i was buying unsweeted juice concentrates from vitacost. Cranberry, pomegranate, etc. Apple concentrate for sweetness. But we stopped buying from them when the Corona hit cuz they ain't have shyt. (Using concentrates gives you more of a 'juice', but i used them to flavor teas too.)

Smoothies when im in a groove. In the future, id like to make my own pre sweetened concentrates to cut down on labor. I wanted a soda stream before i found out it was an Israeli company, but Amazon tells me there are other, similar manufacturers.
Nah u good lol. If you use sugar in your tea, how much do you usually put? Thanks
 

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Nah u good lol. If you use sugar in your tea, how much do you usually put? Thanks
A little less than 2/3 cup per gallon. (For reference, the sweet tea standard is 1.5 cups per gallon.)

However! If you use teas with natural sweetness, you can decrease the sugar even more. I made a mint, honeysuckle, hibiscus tea once and gave it out, ppl said they barely used any sugar at all.

I don't often have honeysuckle, but hibiscus with just a little sugar be tasting like kool aid. (The celestial seasonings tea red zinger is mostly hibiscus, as an example.) Plus, it's supposedly an excellent source of vitamin c.
 

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How is a woman 210 6ft woman with two kids from two different fathers talking about, all the men she meets are "betas"? Including her children's fathers. Then has the gall to say she doesn't work. Plus she was married too? And he isn't the father of any of the kids?

:mindblown:

These callers amaze me.
 

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How is a woman 210 6ft woman with two kids from two different fathers talking about, all the men she meets are "betas"? Including her children's fathers. Then has the gall to say she doesn't work. Plus she was married too? And he isn't the father of any of the kids?

:mindblown:

These callers amaze me.

I think it’s lame as hell when women use the term beta and alpha. Like their the experts. I don’t go around telling woman who’s a real woman and who’s lady like.
 

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You can get Brolic on plants.
That white reviewer theneedledrop is relatively built and he’s a straight vegan. And plant based diets aren’t as good for white people compared to us, as they lean more towards carnivore type diets. So the whole statement of plant based not letting you get brolic is cap

and why not be a pescatarian by adding fish to diets? Nobody can say how do these vegan meals each day add up to a significant amount of protein. broccoli has the most amount of protein of any vegetable and even then it isn’t a crazy amount and you gotta have like a plateful. I guess there are the different types of nuts also ...but again nothing wrong with adding fish and just making it a pescatarian thing

People from Okinawa Japan largely eat on a seafood diet and have some of the highest life expectancy rates in the world


A lot of black feminist are taking subliminal shots at Kevin.

“ why are you letting some random man with two failed marriages tell you your worth? Get your HVM queen. Age ain’t nothing but a number.”

:mjlol:

the funny part is they harp on the two divorces but wouldn’t allow us to say don’t take relationship advice from a woman with two divorces lmao. Or they take relationship advice from whores on social media who can’t keep a man


What's crazy is a 6 is average or above average which is nothing wrong with that. I looked through her IG and she's cute. I don't know how she looks when not glammed up but body wise, dudes would be willing to wife.

A lot of women be so damn dillusional when it comes to ratings. Reminds me of the one chick who called in about a week or so ago who thought she was on the level of Beyonce. :mjlol: She was about average looking but she could probably get wifed up but they think they deserve a pro athlete, rapper, or a white collar man making 100k+ a year. Ain't nothing wrong with a truck driver, mechanic, plumber, hvac tech, etc! :mjtf: If he ain't no bum living off his mama, keeps and maintains a good job, and can put you in a decent apartment or house then why are you passing him by?!:mjtf:

speaking of trade jobs....

brehs we need another show on black women not respecting blue collar workers

the two we had last year was back when his subscriber numbers weren’t like they are now. It would be interesting to see the calls now about that. Like have women call in and explain their issues with them and why they look down on them so much

many black men have these jobs so in a way it can represent the prime example of the disrespect we get
 

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How is a woman 210 6ft woman with two kids from two different fathers talking about, all the men she meets are "betas"? Including her children's fathers. Then has the gall to say she doesn't work. Plus she was married too? And he isn't the father of any of the kids?

:mindblown:

These callers amaze me.
The callers are fake
 

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How is a woman 210 6ft woman with two kids from two different fathers talking about, all the men she meets are "betas"? Including her children's fathers. Then has the gall to say she doesn't work. Plus she was married too? And he isn't the father of any of the kids?

:mindblown:

These callers amaze me.

when she said that she was a homemaker, but didn’t have a husband, I knew he was gonna go in.
 
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