We have to be honest though, a lot of black men do not strive to be leaders.
How can you strive to be leaders
When you are taught by the nurtures
This is the same talking point women love to use
Without addressing the root of the problem
Furthermore
This is also the same talking point from women
Who run across strong minded men with leadership skills
Then toss him into the bushes because she deems him controlling
When she doesn’t get her way
Women have a funny way of telling half truths and bullshyt quotes from memes
The same women who can’t even muster a fukking smile
Are all of a sudden going to capitulate to a mans word
That’s bullshyt and you know it
Women love that word “strength” until REAL strength comes knocking at the door
Then they turn into delicate flowers that need help/can’t do no wrong/accountability nowhere to be seen
If you want men to lead start picking better men
It’s very rare these bytches just up and meet a whole liar/abuser
Ask your woman her list of relationships and they will all be the same story
Then you look at the men in their immediate life
How is all of this abuse happening in EVERY relationship you encounter
And none of the men in your family know about this
Leadership starts in the home for both men and women
I’m tired of reading/hearing this talking point
And when people get hit with that work
It’s a bunch of Dougie Fresh beat boxing and what about this
Everybody knows the pink elephant but hide behind this bullshyt
We need men and women to make a concerted effort
To get mental help
Heal
Start outcasting the fukk nikkas and bytches from our ranks
Actually talk and listen to each other
And evolve
This debate has many layers
And this talking point only boils it down to one side doing better
That’s a crock of bullshyt I’m not tolerating at my age of 40 anymore