Kerry Hilson says men never really tried/sexually harrassed her in the industry

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Although this may be her story and I'm glad she did not experience that, but this is text book victim blaming
 

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Although this may be her story and I'm glad she did not experience that, but this is text book victim blaming


Care to explain? I think this is something easily observable in real life. Of course there are exceptions. But how a woman carries herself can definitely deter men from trying her. We arent talking about the extreme cases of men who dont give a damn. But moreso those esclating tactics that only work on dumber women. Like trying to have meetings in the hotel room. Or late night studio sessions at their house.


Alot of men aint trying to get that off on a a woman they can see is intelligent and knows how things are supposed to work. And arent desperate like she said.
 

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Care to explain? I think this is something easily observable in real life. Of course there are exceptions. But how a woman carries herself can definitely deter men from trying her. We arent talking about the extreme cases of men who dont give a damn. But moreso those esclating tactics that only work on dumber women. Like trying to have meetings in the hotel room. Or late night studio sessions at their house.


Alot of men aint trying to get that off on a a woman they can see is intelligent and knows how things are supposed to work. And arent desperate like she said.

You're speaking out of both sides of your mouth, how a woman carries herself has never universally stopped the act of sexual harassment or outright rape, you can couch it however you want or throw what if's but there are too many examples of it happening. Again someone saying THEY didn't experience rape or harassment due to how they carried themselves is explicitly implying that those who did contributed to the act.
 

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Industry full of LGBTQ warriors. how TF can you not shoot your shot :dahell:
A woman that’s not interested and one that carries herself as someone who’s not pay for play sends very clear signals to a neutral man.

You don’t shoot your shot at every woman you find attractive and one of those reasons is this very one. You peep it, respect it and move on because there’s no shortage of available women. Unless you’re a rapey ass nikka who gets off on hounding an uninterested woman, you keep it moving.
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
*looks at who started this thread*
And nikkas in here dapping this known rapist
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#Wecanallbekeyboardpanthers
 

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You're speaking out of both sides of your mouth, how a woman carries herself has never universally stopped the act of sexual harassment or outright rape, you can couch it however you want or throw what if's but there are too many examples of it happening. Again someone saying THEY didn't experience rape or harassment due to how they carried themselves is explicitly implying that those who did contributed to the act.


The problem here is you should never mix something as monstrous as rape with sexual harrasment like you are attempting to do. Cam said "try you",i dont think he meant rape. No a woman cant be responsible for her rape. But a woman CAN be responsible for her sexual harrasment. Keyword here is CAN.


How many men in the industry do you think are flat out rapist who take it? Very small percentage we should just throw out of this discussion. How many are the type of perverts who will just pull they dikk out in the studio? Slightly larger percentage but not anywhere close to half probably.



Most of these dudes who get caught up in sexual harrasment or called predators are the types to use their power or position to lure women on dates under false pretenses, or to their homes to seduce them. Nothing about this is monstrous or criminal in itself. A womans behavior while at work CAN be the cause of why a man tries to explore if shes interested outside the work place.


Problem is because the man has power to make or break her career. The woman may FEEL a pressure to smash that the man doesnt know she feels. And the man never explicitly said she had to smash or be blackballed. She couldve easily just said no and went home.


In her mind he may have raped her by todays standard or was a predator. But in his mind,the "vibes" he felt at work were accurate and she did actually want to smash. Women who carry themselves a certain way dont give off "vibes" in the workplace! This weeds out the overwhelming ammount of men who will "try" you. While no,it doesnt weed out the few rapist or men who will randomly pull they dikk out. Or those few who give zero fukks about a H.R.


Keri is telling you she knows how most of these situation REALLY go. But you are dismissive of it. Men constantly talk sbout how they dont approach women who dont seem open to being approached. Yet you pretend that plays no role in who gets approached in work environments. The game Keri is giving will weed out most issues,which are misunderstandings caused by interacting and getting to comfortable:respect:.
 

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Keri has sisters and a brother. Comes from a respectable family. No way they would let her be out there slanging that thang around.
It’s definitely a class thing.

I can tell by looking at her that she knows people who knows people by her last name alone.

She wouldn’t get tried, but someone like Sexy Red would’ve and is most likely sucking for every advance check
 

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I believe her, look at her run very short and that’s most likely why..

Same with Mya and Amerie..

nikkas forget Beyoncé got with Jay z as a young artist lowkey that gave her that extra push..without crazy in love I don’t think she is the mega star she became
Beyonce was going to be a superstar regardless. Another rapper gets on Crazy in Love it was still gonna do what it did.
 

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Good for her

All u heard about her was her and serge of OKC thunder was a item , until he bounced
 
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