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Putting the onus on women to change male behavior.

But the truth is short ugly average black men don't like his female counter part. He is mad that the popular girl in school doesn't see him for his inner beauty. Suggest he get with the girl next door... Oh hell naw. I need to collect dimes.
Didn't say it was your job. You can do whatever you want but I'm letting you know that whatever a women's preference is is what that man will be just to fukk her. So if you want better men then collectively demand better men. But it's ok that women like bad boys, it's just in your nature. Why you think that the Darly character on walking dead is so popular? Because he was a bad boy that went good and women love to think they can change a man
 

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Putting the onus on women to change male behavior.

But the truth is short ugly average black men don't like his female counter part. He is mad that the popular girl in school doesn't see him for his inner beauty. Suggest he get with the girl next door... Oh hell naw. I need to collect dimes.
A lot of us do suggest that but men don't have as much power in the relationship scene as women so those men who try to change it can't do as much as women can.
 
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Didn't say it was your job. You can do whatever you want but I'm letting you know that whatever a women's preference is is what that man will be just to fukk her. So if you want better men then collectively demand better men. But it's ok that women like bad boys, it's just in your nature. Why you think that the Darly character on walking dead is so popular? Because he was a bad boy that went good and women love to think they can change a man
Think I spelled that nikka name wrong :ohhh:
 

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Yup. And this is men's fault for not calling out, breaking down and ridiculing some black women's twisted 00n narrative. Nerdy, short, ugly and otherwise normal black guys get ignored and made invisible everyday by all manners of black women. This drives the "swag" effect which makes black men overcompensate for women's shallowness, racial preference and superficiality. Other races of men don't have to overcompensate because women value them more than they do black men. Ironically black women drive the same "thug" persona they claim hurts the black community. Thus the solution is for black women to value black men for more than just swag and extend their horizons to ALL black men, not just the 6'5 handsome types or swag types.

The problem, of course, is that black women can't appreciate all black men because beyond the veil of lies and secrecy, black women look down on black men.
I won't say look down but have no serious faith in black men to be protectors and providers. However, 400 years of affirmative action for the anglo male does that.

Like I told my friend. I wasted money and more importantly time trying to impress bytches and chase p*ssy. The black male should focus on himself more, build himself up then worry about courting women. Rather earlier than later in life.
 

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So you can findo K Michelle saying it but you can't find any black men celeb saying it...lol

As I stated in my OP, this popped up on my Facebook news feed; I didn't look for anything.

I've seen black male celebrities date non-black women but I've rarely, if ever, seen those black men publicly bash black women to justify dating non-black women.
 

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As I stated in my OP, this popped up on my Facebook news feed; I didn't look for anything.

I've seen black male celebrities date non-black women but I've rarely, if ever, seen those black men publicly bash black women to justify dating non-black women.
Like I said you don't seem to find it....but black women do.
 

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Like I said you don't seem to find it....but black women do.

Maybe because black male celebrities generally don't make stupid remarks like K Michelle, Stacy Dash, Azealia Banks, or Kenya Moore.

Again, show me PROOF of black male celebrities publicly dissing black women to justify dating non-black women. If you don't have any, stop complaining.
 

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Well I'm goingnto sleep right now. I'll expect 30 pages to dine on with breakfast in the morning

:ahh: Two of our resident black male haters bleeding all over this thread, accompanied by the men who love to follow them around with mops and buckets. Who needs the Sunday Times to go with breakfast when you have such good reads for free?

Ima go head and eat this bacon
 

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Maybe because black male celebrities generally don't make stupid remarks like K Michelle, Stacy Dash, Azealia Banks, or Kenya Moore.

Again, show me PROOF of black male celebrities publicly dissing black women to justify dating non-black women. If you don't have any, stop complaining.
Yes they do all the time...strange you can't find it but you can find one of black female celebs that you wouldn't even seriously date anyway. Some were posted but excuses were made for all of them
 

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And the people who daps them....

Yup. And this is men's fault for not calling out, breaking down and ridiculing some black women's twisted 00n narrative. Nerdy, short, ugly and otherwise normal black guys get ignored and made invisible everyday by all manners of black women. This drives the "swag" effect which makes black men overcompensate for women's shallowness, racial preference and superficiality. Other races of men don't have to overcompensate because women value them more than they do black men. Ironically black women drive the same "thug" persona they claim hurts the black community. Thus the solution is for black women to value black men for more than just swag and extend their horizons to ALL black men, not just the 6'5 handsome types or swag types.

The problem, of course, is that black women can't appreciate all black men because beyond the veil of lies and secrecy, black women look down on black men.
@Bless't or any of non black posters...can you vouch for that?


Well your point was that black celebrities say stuff about black women all the time, and that such somehow justifies Michelle (it doesn't regardless), so you'd need a list or some other type of relevant evidence. Most new or old black celebrities don't make cringe-worthy comparisons involving black women like Michelle does. But for whatever reason, these new black female celebrities are constantly downing nikkas, for cacs no less. And that's wrong, and anybody who is black thinks it is wrong.

You're obviously some sort of idiot or cac so fukk your thinking it's OK for K Michelle to down nikkas for cacs.
Is that so? Can someone post the immeasurable amount of black female celebs that down on black men @SuperCoolP_Cal (you seem good at finding those).

In addition to their current oppression, which is somehow the black man's fault in a society and business world black men have little influence and no control over. In every country on the planet--except in black countries--black females are on the bottom. In Arabia, the bottom. In Europe, the bottom. In America, the bottom. i guess the black man talks shyt about black women in every language -- or else the truth, which is that non-black men think black women are inferior apes, exactly the same as black men. And the black man did not them anything.:mjlol:

White propaganda. I looked at the table and black women only marry down 10% less than white women.

The above graph says that black women make up less than 1% of all female scientists and engineers in the USA. As a percentage Black females would have to be 6% of the female scientist and engineer group to even say that they are reaching the same level of success as other groups of females.

Anyway, I commemorate black women for their devotion to education but let's not misrepresents facts in order to push agendas. :mjpls:

[please, only relevant and thoughtful replies. no one sentence nonsense. argue my points, nothing else].

Everywhere humans inhabit, patriarchy and misogyny exist too. Patriarchy is ubiquitous and implacable. Where one man's patriarchy falters, another man's patriarchy lives. All of us are slaves to that man's patriarchy in the same way we are slaves to that man's rules and laws. In fact our slavery to that man's patriarchy is represented by our slavery to the aforementioned rules and laws.

Furthermore, the nature of this societal slavery is that in spite the fact we are all servants, some of us serve more than others. That is to say, though every individual man is a slave to a wider patriarchy's parameters, some of us have more privilege and more power within it than others. As such, a hierarchy exists in every patriarchy like a hierarchy exists in every animal kingdom. We can no more run from this hierarchy than a fat rat from the claws of an eye. Accordingly, blacks can no more run from the fact we're at the bottom of hierarchy than the rat in his own. Thus it is no surprise blacks are derided and shunted to the bottom of every society but our own. No animal is king in any domain but his own. So now that we've established the omnipresence of patriarchy, let us now discuss the necessity of it.

Patriarchy is as necessary to human existence as war, and the former follows the latter. One man's patriarchy keeps another man's patriarchy at bay the same way one country's weapons' stockpile keeps another country from attacking. As a people's control over their own country best benefits them, so a different people's control disenfranchises those native people. Thus,patriarchy an integral and necesary part of human societies. For without your own patriarchy--with your own military--you are like to succumb to the patriarchy--or thet military power--of another. And there is no better master, no better steward, of your life and your own society, than you. For it is when another man's patriachy--whether it be the white man's, or Asian's, or Arab's--monopolizes and colonizes you, you become a slave to them, rather than a master of your own self.

The above considered, there is no sense in black women fighting their own male's patriarchy, however sexist and brutal that patriarchy may seem. The alternative is another man's patriarchy, and the racism, brutality, genocide and hierarchy that comes with it. Moreover, in terms of progress, every group of women's empowerment follows their men's -- for better or worse. If black men are wealthy and powerful and respected, black women are too. If black men are not, black women are not. All this considered, why do women fight all patriarchy and put womenhood before heritage? Do they not understand patriarchy?

Do they not understand that as much as we hate, we need it?

Found this on the "This fight leg to police beating black kids in McKinney" YouTube comment page:

mai72
"oh, I guess all those young black youth in our prisons today are fake? There are more young black males in prison than in college today.
That's the fact. Another reason why young black college educated females are marrying white educated men because they want a better life. A life void of welfare, food stamps and unwed babies."

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Now besides the fact more young black males are in college than in jail, the above bolded statement is yet more evidence bedwenches are just anti-black pawns white racists intend to use against black men as a show of racial superiority. Racists watch the black men-women feuds and delight in it. This comment got a bunch of likes. Like many have said, including @@Mowgli and @@Premeditated , Bedwenches are merely white supremacist dogs.

Men are different to women. White men have historically dated out too -- but never allowed white women to date out because men and women are different. Slaveowners fukked theirslaves one one hand and brutally tortured slaves to death on the other. Like I said, men and women are different.

White females can't actually hurt black people though. They need white men to enforce anything. As such I question how white women are "racism's secret weapon". Racism has no edge when there is no steel.

No, he is correct. Studies imply black females have the lowest overall respect for black men.

This is a poignant post. Studies actually support your notion. While many black women rank black men highest in attractiveness, many black women also rank black men lowest (or almost lowest) in overall desirability. Ergo black women like black men only on a superficial level, similar to white and other kinds of women. Suffice to say, beyond the shell of the black man's body, some black women simply do not value black men at all. This is why black men must put so much effort into things like swag and physicality, because without those things black women show no interest. Those things change a black man's phenotype, which mediates black women's (and white and Asian and w/e) nominal interest in black men.

Brehs have to realize the truth: black women are not our "allies" per se.

They are just the next convenient prisoner shackled to us in this grand prison called humanity. Our common imprisonment gives us the illusion of allied fellowship, but it is a cognitive mistake to think black women share the same goals as us simple because the two genders are born shackled together at the heel.

And when the riot breaks out and it's time for us to escape, we have to drag and fight them along with everything else. The cac man dragged white women everywhere he went too so we're not the only ones.

If Barkley did say that, most famous black men don't say what Charles Barkley said so what exactly is your point? Find me a list of relevant black stars that have insulted black women like Barkley did.

I wish you happiness in the arms of a non-BW, no bw needa this aggravation.
 
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