Batman's only ever really loved 3 women enough to actually pursue or attempt to pursue an actual relationship.
Andrea (The Phantasm)- pre-Batman love who he was going to give up the idea of being a vigilante for but she left with her father to avoid the Mob.
Selena Kyle ( Catwoman) Villian\ Vigilante who represented the thrill of being someone with an alter ego that was more a true representation of who they were than her civilian guise, just like batman.
Talia Al Ghul- Sexy Chick who was the heir to the Al Ghul legacy and mother of Bruce's son.
The rest were all jump off status
Andrea (The Phantasm)- pre-Batman love who he was going to give up the idea of being a vigilante for but she left with her father to avoid the Mob.
Selena Kyle ( Catwoman) Villian\ Vigilante who represented the thrill of being someone with an alter ego that was more a true representation of who they were than her civilian guise, just like batman.
Talia Al Ghul- Sexy Chick who was the heir to the Al Ghul legacy and mother of Bruce's son.
The rest were all jump off status