Just turned 30, what should I expect for my 30s?

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30s are great if you took care of business in your 20s.

The Good
More money :blessed:
More p*ssy thrown at you :wow:

The Bad
Your parents start aging fast :mjcry:
You lose a lot friends as paths diverge :manny:

I didn't want to give the bad.

Friends disappear like nothing you've seen before.

Mom looks like she aged 20 years in the span of 10.

You do become more of a target to some people, not just the police.

Body doesn't recover from physical activity nearly as fast.
 

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Damn breh :mjcry:


What should I look out for in my 30s?
I prolly learned more about myself over the last decade than any time before. You really are about to hit the prime of your life. Your at the age where you are truly on some grown man shyt but still a young man at the same time. Take advantage of every opportunity that comes your way. It’s cool to dream big in your 20s but your 30s is where you make it happen
 

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I'm 36, in great fukking shape, and my money right for the first time ever.

As long as you take care of yourself on so many levels your 30s should be awesome

But yeah...you definitely ain't a young man...remember that. Or more like father time will make that ever more apparent.
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Single, Black women with children and police.

You now have a HUGE target on your back, breh.

I'm not even kidding.​

Hilarious because this is so true. These knock out the black and just put single women with kids. They put it on you heavy.

Cops looking at you like :patrice: you're young, black, and successful in your 30s...how did we allow this to happen?

30s are great if you took care of business in your 20s.

The Good
More money :blessed:
More p*ssy thrown at you :wow:

The Bad
Your parents start aging fast :mjcry:
You lose a lot friends as paths diverge :manny:

This. Also, on the p*ssy front, yeah there's a lot more available but the drop in quality women is :mjcry:. I'd say date down but these 26 and younger chicks are on some straight fukkery. Sooooo many chicks have only fans, "arrangements", etc. in 2020 it's nuts.

I'm more paranoid than ever about dating someone outside of my circle / not-pre-screened, but the usual mechanisms (going to school with them, knowing them through a friend) fall off because your circle gets older as well.
 

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When I turned 30(I was also pregnant) I learned I couldn’t eat all foods, started getting indigestion during and after having my son. I had to leave fried foods and Chinese alone and start eating healthier. I was also starting to get fat.:mjcry:

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I hate my birthdays, I try to sleep through them if possible. Its just another reminder that I'm slowly dying and I haven't been shyt since I was eleven. I didnt ask to be here. The only upside to that day is how late November is the GOAT time of year.

Good grief, do you need to talk to someone?

Congrats OP. Well, if you were about your purpose (finances / health) these should honestly be your GOAT decade, especially if you're a single man. :salute:
 

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Not a damn thang:russ:
Make a thread at 35
That’s when the real fun begins:mjgrin:
Knees popping like fire crackers:mjcry:
Piss strong than a muthafukka:damn:
Even if you work out consistently
Recovery time:mjcry:
Them all day sex marathons :mjlol:
Forget about it:mjlol:
If you get 3 quality nuts in one day:wow:
That third nut is a back breaker:wow:
That’s why you start learning tantric and other forms of pleasure
To prolong fun with your main
Good luck:mjgrin:

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