Just lost my mom to Covid.

[Methodical]

Sorry to hear that man.
My condolences to you and your family.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Breh, no words I can say can ever stop the pain that you're feeling at this moment.

All I give you is my condolences and prayers.

 

[phonthought3000]

My condolences may peace be with you in this time of sarrow and peace to you earth who is now your angel watching u

 

[Rekkapryde]

To answer the questions:

Yes, she had underlying conditions including Lupus

Developed Pneumonia

It "fogged" up her right lung and she was on a morphine drip until she passed.

I was able to see her with my cousin the day before (they let us visit and gave us PPE to wear) so that was a blessing in itself.

She was in a nursing home, under lockdown and one of the staff passed it to her.

If you have older family members, please keep them in mind when going out.

Y'all kept my spirits up like you always do, so I appreciate my third family.

I bury her tomorrow (Muslim funeral).

Stay safe out there brehs and brehettes.

Regards,

Afro

fukk man. A "dap" don't even feel right so I won't press it.

Losing a parent fukkin sucks.

Just appreciate the time yall had together and hit up the Coli fam to keep your mind off shyt for some laughs.

 

[Afro]

wow smh rip...I can’t imagine

I know now may not be the time to think about this

but it might be possible you have a case against that nursing home

if you are certain a staff member passed it on to her

god that’s fukking horrible smdh

It's all good.

It would be difficult to pinpoint who exactly since staff just walk around (with masks) and go into rooms if someone needs something.

Hard thing to prove and to be honest, the place loved her. The staff loved her, she couldn't walk down the hall without saying hi to someone.

She had so many friends I couldn't keep track of all of the names


She wouldn't want me to do that.

RIP to your mom.


100% sure I’m not sending my parents to a nursing home. shyt sounds like purgatory on earth

Make sure you and your family have money for something else. I mean that if you don't want them in one.

Period. She needed round the clock care because of her memory loss from multiple seizures.

Sorry man for your loss. RIP.

how were the fukking staff not constantly being tested and wearing PPE?

Temperature tests and if I test you for Covid in the first week, it may not show up until another test a week or two later.

Guess how many people you have been in contact with by then


On top of all the false negatives and positives.

Sorry for your loss. Although it is tough, I am happy to hear that you were able to go in and spend time with her. Those are things that you can keep.

Another poster here mention his mother dying recently and he said he wished he saved voicemails and text messages.

I remembered that for a few months now and I would stop myself before deleting them. I want to thank that breh because at some point he was right. I would forget her voice

Damn, breh...

She lives on in you. Remember that. Her DNA is flowing through you. It will give you the strength to press on. She’ll be right there with you, always.

I'm closer to her side of the family more than ever now and a lot of her friends have decided to adopt me so I feel very loved right now

AWW MAN BREH. I HOPE SHE DIDN'T SUFFER. MY CONDOLENCES.

She didn't, doctors gave me the whole picture so I told them to make her as comfortable as possible.

Believe it or not, other families made different decisions with the same knowledge and some folks died in agony


I've got 660+ notifications, so give me time to go through this thread, but any questions I'll try to answer to the best of my ability.

 

[Just like bruddas]

My condolences fam.

May Allah bless her in paradise, Ameen

 

[Unknown Poster]

Sorry for your loss breh. My condolences.

 

[jadillac]

I'm sorry to hear this bro.

I hope you can stay strong.

 

[bzb]

no love like your moms love. sorry for your loss, at least you were able to see her. peace and strength breh.

 

[Afro]

RIP. I lost my father to it. Literally going to bury him this week.

My condolences for your father.

You wanna talk about, you know my name on here.

It was far away until it wasn't.

I lost my friend. And honestly I might have lost my brother to Covid before we knew what is it was. My prayers go to you and your family

My condolences for your friend and brother.

I'm happy that y'all could share this for others. It could help people so thank you from my heart breh

@Afro Condolences to you and your family breh. Coli fam is here for you.

You guys always are

We here for each other when it comes down to it

The staff gave it to her

I’m sorry breh. That’s horrible
Nursing homes have been getting lit up with this virus

Breh, me and my aunt were watching the totals. It's nasty.

But yea the staff

I didn't think they did enough but it's in the past now. Her friends are going to be devastated

Damn it. @Afro I can tell you are good people's just from the few times we've interacted. I really REALLY hate that this had to happen to you breh.

I'm really sorry breh.

Rest in power to the queen

Thank you breh, you be having quoteables

It's cool, It happened to me so I can share and heal with yall

Sorry to hear about your loss. You seem to be holding up well. Your Mom raised a strong , level headed son.

I had time to make peace with it and I made sure to go see her when I had the chance, Covid be damned.

Thank you breh

Man, I don’t even go see my dad cuz he got heart problems and I’m paranoid I might get him sick. I’m close with my mom too so this shyt touched a nerve. I’m so sorry for your loss, my condolences, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family. Peace go with you brother, even as an ancestor she’ll be with you always.

As long as you still keep in contact breh, it's all good.

I regret I don't have too many pictures of us together


I honestly just wanted a hug before she passed, but her side of the family adopted me so I got time to make new memories

Very sorry for your loss and the grief you must be experiencing right now.

People keep telling me it will hit me hard later on.

I know I ain't ready

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un

inalilahi wainalilahi rajiun

Sorry for your loss brother

May Allah SWT grant her paradise

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un

Allah yarhamha

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un.

im so sorry breh, may god rest her soul in jannah

{Give good tidings to the patient, who, when disaster strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return." Those are the ones upon whom are blessings from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are the rightly guided.} (al-Baqarah)

Didn't know there were this many Muslims on here

Peace be upon you all, it was an excellent ceremony. Surah Ya Seen was done before she passed and I did Talqeen in the hospital.

Alhamdulillah

This right here. My heart hurts for you man. My mom and sisters still moving with my sisters like ain't shyt wrong no more. The wife, kids and I had a 'dinner' date with my mom two Saturday's ago in the parking lot of a McDonald's She sat in her car with the window down and we had our doors open and we saw each other that way. I don't know what I have and vice versa. Legit had to wipe a tear breh, condolences.

Thank you breh.

You doing the best you can with keeping in contact.

You can't control what other people do though

My aunt is dotting on me to make sure I get tested in a week. I've got a few moms now. My mom left me with good people.

I'm truly sorry for the loss of your mother.

CoVID19 is no joke and killing too many black people as it is. It truly pisses me off to see these ignant brehs downplay this Pandemic and rant on senseless conspiracy theories.

RIP to her.

Thank you man.

Definitely not a joke, the positive results kept climbing at the nursing home for weeks now.

My condolences I wish I could say I understood but I don't im sending nothing but love to you man i hope within time you heal

All good, the well wishes definitely help my spirit in these times so my pure and sincere thank you breh

Sorry for your loss. Through COVID and beyond it we need to do something about these fukking nursing homes. They are death centers in the BEST of times. They need medical professionals there, not $8.00 per hour thots and white trash meth addicts.

Anyway, rant over. Sorry breh. Grieve however you feel you must. There is no right or wrong way.

Rant on breh, I'm on the same page.

This was a five star nursing home, so imagine the folks at the two and one star homes

r.i.p. glad you got to be physically close to her close before she passed...

I am very glad and so is my cousin. Even if I get it because of the visit, I'm at peace with that too. I regret nothing.

Breh, reading that hurt. I'm sorry for your loss homie.

And reading you message made me feel better breh, so thank you kindly.

 

[Harry Sax]

Sorry for ya lost bless her soul

 

[twan83]

To answer the questions:

Yes, she had underlying conditions including Lupus

Developed Pneumonia

It "fogged" up her right lung and she was on a morphine drip until she passed.

I was able to see her with my cousin the day before (they let us visit and gave us PPE to wear) so that was a blessing in itself.

She was in a nursing home, under lockdown and one of the staff passed it to her.

If you have older family members, please keep them in mind when going out.

Y'all kept my spirits up like you always do, so I appreciate my third family.

I bury her tomorrow (Muslim funeral).

Stay safe out there brehs and brehettes.

Regards,

Afro

so sorry for your lost breh
Hit me up if ya need a place to talk

 

[Tony D'Amato]

Damn, this depressed the fukk outta me. I really feel like ppl are letting their guard down rn and its scary.
Sorry for your loss.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

@Afro I know it's not much we can do for you right now breh, but stay strong. You, your mother & the rest of your family are in my prayers.

 

[Zebruh]

Peace be upon you and yours. Wish you and your family much strength. I pray her friends and loved ones can find peace.