Being an attorney and marrying a bum ass chiropractor told me everything I needed to know about her. Her dad is a judge btw. She could have married a guy from law school and lived very well. Instead she's out here chasing a fickle reality TV life, Bad decision making.
Let’s forget she’s a reality show contestant for a second. A lot of people seem to think it’s EASY to meet your partner if you look a certain way, or come from a certain background. That does not mean you will meet and connect, and be attracted to the right person for you. Just because a man went to law school, doesn’t mean they would have had chemistry, and been attracted to each other, or been on the same page. People date in law and medical school all the time, get married, and still get divorced. Relationships aren’t as simple as someone having good qualities, thus they have tons of people to choose from and chemistry with.
And as I’ve said before, women care about looks too. They put men in two categories:
Men they can envision themselves smashing for life
Ugly men
No relationship is surviving without a healthy sex life. Your great qualities and personality aren’t going to make a woman wet. There are women who can get past looks, but don’t think for one second the minute they have an opportunity to get with a man they are attracted to they won’t take the chance out of loyalty. Women cheat too. Your looks get you in the door, your personality Carrie’s you, but people change. You think you’re with one person, because they presented themselves as one thing to get you. Men and women do this all the time. So someone’s relationship failing isn’t always about that person having flaws.
The other elephant in the room that nobody likes to mention, a lot of those corporate, square black men are physically attracted to non black women. Just like a black woman can’t force herself to be attracted to every black man, a black man isn’t going to be attracted to every black woman. And the ratio of black people in those environments to white people is off. Out of the 3-7 black people around, what are the chances you are attracted to them?