U putting up with her willfull issues makes her think that she can do better. It's the you can't eat just one mentality. If you're a 4 and sh'es a 2, she will think "hmm if the 2 puts up with all this, what will the 10 put up with?"
As if...
Let's not diminish the term "bad" or the phrase "bad as fukk" just because you find a particular lady attractive. Bad is like Halle Berry in this pic:
..or Phylicia Rashad in this pic:
it's like The Office debate about Hilary Swank.