If you can't see the damage done to a child by a father saying he'll do something then consistently canceling, such as visiting.. Do everything in your power not to have children. Please.
She continued, “I have tried to communicate with Jesse to resolve these issues to no avail. In May 2020, I sent a detailed communication with my concerns about their health and exhaustion, which Jesse read and ignored. Since then, I have sent multiple messages about the recurring issues, but he has continued this trend of not participating in
meaningful conversations or strategies about their health.”
She noted that since the stars exit from “Grey’s” in May 2021, “there have been
multiple instances of Jesse notifying me with
very little notice that he will be gone for weeks or months at a time for work, and therefore must cancel his custodial time.”
“When I’ve reminded Jesse of his
cancelations and informed him of plans made because of said cancelations, he has resorted to erratic behavior to try to force me to acquiesce to his demands; he calls me names,
uses threatening language and intimidation tactics such as threatening to send the police to my home, causing me to fear for my and our children’s safety,” she claimed
There will always be people like you who put grandstanding ahead of processing people's words.
There is a lot of crap that paints a negative picture, but when you actually pay attention, it is just waffle.
Accusing someone of not participating in meaningful conversation paints the picture of disinterest. In actuality, we don't know what meaningful means to her. It is an accusation that can be thrown out simply because the person didn't get their own way.
Multiple instances from May 2021 onwards paints the picture of him being consistently unreliable. In actuality, we don't know the number and we don't know his track record before changes in his life. That information matters because the period from May 2021 to now is not long enough to determine whether it is a consistent pattern, or a blip due to recent changes.
She reminds him of plans made following the cancellation points towards there being a dispute when he managed to clear his schedule.
She accused him of making threats. This gets people thinking about acts of violence but the example she brought up was him threatening to call the police on her.