Lowkey, some dudes just prefer having a relationship with someone that settles for what he is. We always try to be about the female that wants to better us, inspire us, and all that good shyt. Some dudes just don't feel like being better than what they are cuz what they got is good. Sometimes, hearing "Bae, you good how you are" is all a nikka need to be with a female that perplexes the muthafukk out of the masses