They just gonna act like they don’t have kids who are also reading this circus?
Their daughter has already spoken openly, in front of her mom, grandma, and cameras, about her interest in a polyamorous relationship, preferably between a male and a female.
Those kids are already attention starved trauma cases raised typical neglectful hollywood stage parents, crying out to the world with whatever behavior will get it.
Im all for parenrs sharing very open and mutual relationships with their kids and im not against polyamory, but a teenage girl is still developing her own sense of self esteem, comfort and confidence when it comes to sex. Polyamory is something she should discover and decide for her self as an adult with fully developed, fledged sexual confidence and esteem. Its not something you blissfully introduce to your children because you and your husband cant even be bothered to keep your lives private.
Daddy goes on vacation with this lady while Mom is home. Mommy is out somewhere with this person while Daddy's working. Mom and Dad dont talk to each other or show any intimacy for years on end. And here in the middle you got these poor confused kids who deserve getting the full love, attention abd protection of their caregivers. Their crippled and underdeveloped self esteem has to make unusual fashion, political, and sexual statements they dont even understand just for some love and attention.
This family lost. Will Smith is a traumatized man himself. Hes been making horrid decisions based off crippling experiences as a child for his entire adult life. He needs help. But he has more than enough fame, money and attention to neglect that and not even realize what hes doing. He took all his pain, poured it into music and acting as a teenager, found success, and instead of seeking real help and recovery for the pain in his life, he built up a resourceful wall of sex and money and familt to heal the pain and now everyone around him is humiliated and effected. His emotional pain cant even bear a divorce or seperation--somethjng that clearly shouldve happened decades ago--even with all the money and opportunities he has. Tale as old as time.
For people who have been through abuse and trauma often career success and "looking good," even "perfect," to the outside world becomes a comfortable coping mechanism...its more important to them than actually being happy because their sense of self worth is so damaged and dependant on success, money, sex and validation and not a true inner love of self that can only be provided by the caretaking of competent parents or the help of a therapist along with a loving support group of friends and family.
Black men, their is NOTHING wrong with having a therapist in your life. Let this shyt and so many other stories of black entertainers be a lesson. Dont hide your life pain behind wealth, sex, career, or "muh marriage. Muh family" Confront it and be free.
at this attention starved girl.
