This is one of the problems with J. Cole. Why can't he just fukking say these lyrics without a " just a joke man...but some jokes have some truth to them!"
He does that a lot. The backtracking and hands-off approach.
"My verbal ak slay fakkits, and I don't mean no disrespect when I say fakkit, ok fakkit? Don't be so sensitive. If you want to get fukked in the ass that's between you and whoever dikk it is. Pause. Maybe that line was too far. Just to show you how homophobic you are."