Its rough out here for single black women: singles event but no men show up

[FeverPitch2]

It's some cap going on somewhere, but I cant tell from who.
I'll say this.
If its a legit hang where brehs can meet some decent looking cooperating women, we'd be all for it.
But if it's a finesse that's set up to get nikkas to buy chicks mad drinks and appetizers and generally scrape our pockets, then we'd be cool on it.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

How can people be boring and like going out at the same time?

Hobbies and interests not going out.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Hobbies and interests not going out.

Whats the difference between the two? Definitions seem to change as the world turns these days. Go-carting or even theme parks. Would that be considered going out or an interest?

 

[Dontdoit3]

I been trying to find him on social media, if y’all know his @ pls share, thanks!

Damn I think it’s too late. He said he was gonna be deployed soon.

He probably went and took his talents to team PAAG or PAWG already. If he comes back it’s only because he’s on a revenge tour.

 

[Curufinwe]

the inflation and recession will dry OnlyFan simps. And theses hoes would have to flip burger to survive.

 

[Dontdoit3]

How can people be boring and like going out at the same time?

Oh that’s easy. Just out to take pictures really so you can post it later on IG. That’s about it. Go to a restaurant and it’s just taking pictures of the food. If you go to a club, either stand with each other by the side drinking or complaining all night that the DJ sucks and no dancing. Go on a trip and can’t do any excursions like jet skiing rock climbing ziplining etc. just sit in the pool or beach every day of the entire 7 day trip. What’s the point in going out if you’re gonna do that.

 

[cauliflower]

If there were really no men at this event, these women could have made friends and still had some fun lol. You'd definitely never see me at an event like this but I get the appeal.



Don't see why some people are clowning on these ladies for looking for a potential parter, especially when too many men on this site complain and whine about how hard dating is and how women aren't making a reciprocal effort towards men.

 

[High Art]

 

[Dr. Acula]

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

As a whole, men don't show up to these events. The ratio is always crazy.

I remember back when I was DJing, Q-deezy from Power 99 and this lady who used to book me for DJ gigs forced me to come to one of these events because there was no guys there. I couldn't say no because I was trying to make it as a DJ. I was so miserable....I was like 24 and there were a bunch of single 40 year old women with kids looking for serious relationships. I was like WTF is this....

 

[Koli_Kat]

Wouldn't be surprised.

Sit in front of a bunch of fat heffas and let them filter you out in 2 minute rounds based on your income and facial features without actually getting to know you.

No thanks.

 

[Henri Christophe]

If he comes back it’s only because he’s on a revenge tour

facts

 

[Shadow King]

Thread + tweet replies saying the same thing. The majority of regular dudes not marking down they calendar to attend this when they can approach women in their daily lives (grocery store, parks, community service events)

I never said they were, just that this event is specific to said agenda in a world where those spaces are seeing women far less open to approaches. I don't want your chest-puffing success stories at these places either, shyt is different from back in the day.

And apparently according to the debunkers, men in fact showed up.

 

[cauliflower]

Even though its not true. I believe it will be a problem for them. More men are going their own way in this economy. Less men wants to deal with another expense (a woman) an entitled expense at that.

I'd say the same for many women, except the "expense" is a woman's life possibly being taken because you reject a mf advances. Women are seeing all these murders and news headlines of men killing women and are become extremely wary of men and dating, as they should.

 

[Shadow King]

I don’t believe you, but ok lol

Of course you don't. I've been on this board a decade, you would know long ago if I was on LSA with the same account.

You should also be able to decipher from how I post whether it's me or not. But you know it isn't and are just starting shyt lol