it's funny how many men shift the blame towards women for.....

[Sharp]

The hypocrisy on this forum is mind blowing.
Women are sluts, yet men can have sex with multiple women and brag about it
some men are anti marriage, yet demonize single mothers.
some (black) men complain that single mothers raise shiftless homosexuals, yet don't participate in raising their children.

There are definitely women who are fucced up, but there are men who are fucced up as well and it's crazy that no one will acknowledge this.

This forum is unique though, I have never in my life seen so many aint shyt nikkas congregated in one area. Thank god that I see positive black men on a daily basis or I'd probably start believing the media hype that black men are worthless.

blah blah blah blah

All over the internet there are forums about women who've been done wrong, men ain't shyt, etc.

So now you're at a forum where men actually speak out and you're appalled

Go take a seat. In fact have several seats

 

[Brown Ant]

Women are to blame for all pregnancies, unless they are raped. When they agree or pursue a male subject for sexual activity they are the one's risking getting pregnant, it is always their fault.

 

[JahBuhLun]

I think that so much pressure is being put on men because we live in a society that says men are supposed to be the leaders. When you are the leader you take responsibility for both the shortcomings and the successes.
I see many men (black men) being emasculated and rejecting the role of heads of households and leaders; therefore rejecting responsibility. So I can see why a black man would have this viewpoint. From a white mans perspective, I see a lot more accountability for leadership (they earn more money, marry more, financially support their children more etc) Part of this is the fault of the black man, but a substantial part is the institutionalized racism and propaganda demeaning black men.

Again, excellent point, but I would argue that the unwillingness to accept and garner a leadership role is because of the lack of a father figure in the house. Women and in particular Black women, have been given the increased role and responsibility of providing for family and either coddling their male sons or taking out their frustrations for the father out on the sons. Black men have to hold themselves to a higher standard. But first they need to be shown that a higher standard exists and is attainable.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

bad relationships and etc when it's the men that are usually the ones that are slacking.

i've noticed this. it's usually the guys that are ready to point out what the women are NOT doing or ready to criticize the women BUT @ the same time, it's usually them that's fukking up.

the thing that gets me is not so much the actions which follow laters of many of these men. it's the mentality they have in the first place. they NEVER thought of women in a positive light in the first place so they basically run around thinking that women are bytches and hos and then they go by a confirmation bias judging all women by three women that they see on tv or hear about doing a friend dirty. they themselves also are a problem because they think it's acceptable to treat women in shytty ways.

another thing too. i always hear all this baby mama drama talk about women that have two kids and kick the father out the picture as if the guy had any interest in being a father or staying with that woman anyway.

just saying that if you think that women are the ones to blame for why relationships don't work and etc, you're sadly mistaken.

Seems to me that the blame would be roughly 50/50. I'm going off of a rough statistical estimate here.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Everyone is fukked up.

/end

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

bad relationships and etc when it's the men that are usually the ones that are slacking.

i've noticed this. it's usually the guys that are ready to point out what the women are NOT doing or ready to criticize the women BUT @ the same time, it's usually them that's fukking up.

the thing that gets me is not so much the actions which follow laters of many of these men. it's the mentality they have in the first place. they NEVER thought of women in a positive light in the first place so they basically run around thinking that women are bytches and hos and then they go by a confirmation bias judging all women by three women that they see on tv or hear about doing a friend dirty. they themselves also are a problem because they think it's acceptable to treat women in shytty ways.

another thing too. i always hear all this baby mama drama talk about women that have two kids and kick the father out the picture as if the guy had any interest in being a father or staying with that woman anyway.

just saying that if you think that women are the ones to blame for why relationships don't work and etc, you're sadly mistaken.

you have never been in a relationship with a woman
how the fukk do you know?

 

[Pool_Shark]

Gender Wars

 

[Coco Loco]

This forum is unique though, I have never in my life seen so many aint shyt nikkas congregated in one area. Thank god that I see positive black men on a daily basis or I'd probably start believing the media hype that black men are worthless.

Unique indeed but I don't let the low life posters speak for the coli as whole... thankfully.

 

[shylittlekitten]

it's the same for both genders. No one likes to take credit for bad behavior.

 

[Donald J Trump]

Women want equality, but blame the man cuz they got pregnant by that aint shyt nikka...it takes 2 to tango

 

[DaChampIsHere]

it's the same for both genders. No one likes to take credit for bad behavior.

Pretty much. I think the advent of the internet into our everyday lives has made shyt even worse

Back in the day, if you were wrong about something, people around you would tell you, offer advice, etc. because they knew all of the story and you'd have to suck it up and really admit that you were wrong.

In the age we live in, you can pretty much go on the internet and find ANY one to agree with and support your stupidity, even when you are wrong, when you are telling half stories, etc.

If everyone just fixed themselves in the best ways they could, blame game shyt wouldn't even be going down.